How many of you would settle with a new boyfriend who had a wife still to divorce on one side and then on the other a ex girlfriend who owes him bucks and thiose bucks won't be paid off for over 12 years, and she calls every month she can't pay it so he does?
IS it possible in any of your eyes, that this man can really love me?
2006-10-26 15:24:40 · 11 answers · asked by peggin_beast 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may love you with all that he is capable of loving anyone.
My suggestion would be to cut him loose, wait 'til he got away from BOTH the other women, then maybe he could be committed to you. I would actually go a little further & make sure he was single for a little while, so he could get to know himself.
Same to you girl, stay single, get to know yourself. Why would you want to settle for a situation like that. You deserve better. So does he.
Be true to yourself.
Betrayal of the self is the worst type of betrayal.
He is in a committed relationship with his wife. If he will dishonor that, he will dishonor his relationship with you as well.
2006-10-26 15:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mar C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he is separated from his wife, so he isn't even divorced for one then he has an ex gf that he loaned money to and that means you will have to deal with her 12 yrs. I know I wouldn't want that thrown in my face every month. Plus why didn't things work out with his wife or his ex gf??? Is he really worth it?
2006-10-26 22:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a big mess to me - cut ties with both women before trying to move on.
2006-10-26 22:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by ~ â?¥ ~ Annette ~ â?¥ ~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want him? He would be nothing but trouble. He needs to divorce his wife before he starts dating.
2006-10-26 22:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by DALLAS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
truly sounds very complicated...but the answer lies in yourself do you want to be in this situation or not....if you do then you have to adjust and adapt to it, if not then you need to tell him that is if you love him that until he gets his life squared away you feel it's best to just back off...there is a heart break here and that is never easy to handle.
2006-10-26 22:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in second chances. But this guy is different; you should leave him alone.
2006-10-26 22:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by melomane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's breaking your heart. Find something that will mend it.
2006-10-26 22:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Babs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is with you so that must count for something...
2006-10-26 22:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
**** i would leave his ***
2006-10-26 22:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by jstressed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a better guy!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 22:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Me, Myself and I 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋