i'm going to my boyfriends this weekend and i am going to get my first french kiss and i'm so nervous. i want to but i'm just scared. please tell me everything u know about it please. and when u are in there mouth i know i heard people say to massage the other persons tounge but how do u do that and do u move your tounge in circles or something. iam clueless about everything PLEASE help please.
2006-10-26 15:21:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know people say it comes naturally but can u kinda explain it so i won't be as nervous. like when u are in there mouth u massage there tounge but do u go in circles or somethign...and what are some tips
2006-10-26 15:31:52 · update #1
It's called French kissing when you use your tongue.
An important tip to start: always try to swallow before you kiss. Moist, not wet.
Start slowly, use your tongue to caress his underlip. Keep your tongue moving. In time, probe deeper and deeper into his mouth.
Explore, retract your tongue, explore some more. Try to tease his tongue in following yours when you retract.
Don't overdo it, variation and surprises are the key to the fun.
Suck and nibble the lips in between the tongue-probing.
Every now and then, detour away from the lips, elsewhere on the face.
Get your hands in on the action. Caress his face, hold his neck and pull him to you.
Don't dominate the kisses. You are kissing together.
Stop in time. Make him want to come back for more.
2006-10-27 17:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by cordefr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, a kiss a something that comes naturally. Some people have it and some people don't. Practice makes perfect. If this is really what you want then go for it. Very slowly. It's just like eating an orange. For instance, you cut the orange in half make sure it's kind of soft or at least in the center of the half orange. Slightly open your mouth and taste the orange (keep in mind your are not probing the orange with your tongue your are tasting it) so rest your tongue slightly in the center and slowly move it (imagine his tongue there). It's more like a massage. After that everything comes naturally. Good Luck.
2006-10-26 15:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to relax ,there is nothing to be afraid of. Just think of it as that nice big ice cream cone you love to lick. Start off with the simple peck and gradually open your mouth and think of the ice cream cone and gentally take a lick.
2006-10-26 15:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by softpack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax, it's really not that big of a deal. It will come naturally to you. And if you're really that nervous or worried, put it off for a while.
2006-10-26 15:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it comes naturally..thats all
2006-10-26 15:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by itstony 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cute.....i cant help smiling!!
2006-10-26 15:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋