Ok quick run down on whats going on. Im 25/m shes 24 and we been talking/seeing each other for about 2 months now. Shes an RN and im in nursing school so we both have a lot in common as far as that goes, and when we are together we both get along great no problems. The thing is this... for whatever reason she seems to only want to see me like once every 2 weeks( shes busy but not THAT busy) Im busy also but i always make time for someone that i like to be with. When I bring it up she just says she always has things going on so its hard to get together, but common ONCE every 2 weeks i MAYBE get to see her?. To her credit she does call every couple of days, but its hard to know someone just over phone conversations real contact is a must. i want to know if maybe you think im getting led around or what( I dont know if shes seeing other guys but i dont think so), we dont have any problems or anything like that, but i dont know if i should continue to see her if she wont make an effort. TY
2006-10-26 15:12:27 · 4 answers · asked by WHO_WHAT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The other night she invited me to her place, and basically couldn’t jump my **** fast enough ( i seriously was not expecting that) we did everything but f*** because right before we did she said " i dont have sex the first time" LOL what a tease she couldn’t get into my pants fast enough then puts THAT on me? WTF.
2006-10-26 16:05:48 · update #1
Wow this sounds like my life. But I ended mine. You said it, you would make time for someone you like. So what does that tell you??? She likes you I'm sure but she isn't into you like you are with her. You probally think of you two maybe dating. She looks at it as hanging out. Yeah I hate that to. What a lead on. I would say cut your looses and run like hell! Find someone who is as interested in you as you are in them.
Good luck. Man I just thought this happened to us women
2006-10-26 15:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last time I checked, there is no law stopping you from seeing other women if you're the type of guy who needs more contact. You might really like her but she isn't giving you what you need but if you begin to move away and let her see that, she may actually turn it around and call you to go out more. I would definitely try that--don't let her be the leader--you both can be.
2006-10-26 15:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said you make time for her regardless on how busy you are. If she's really into the relationship she will put the same effort that you are putting into.
2006-10-26 15:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"but i always make time for someone that i like to be with"
You answered your own question.
2006-10-26 15:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋