OK, so I hooked up with this girl and we ended up spending the night together, being FWB. She did not want me to leave and repeatedly asked me to stay, suggested we hang out on the town, etc. She was visibly upset that I was leaving, I kissed her and she was tearing (sp) up a little. So I get home and she IM's me and after a few minutes of chat, she said essentially the same thing I said when I was leaving and ended the conversation, which I found strange.
Soooo I figure, she's playing me hot and cold, I'll wait her out. She was online daily for several days. Has my number. Nothing. Suddenly she is not online since then. I send her an email and she has not read it yet.
What gives? Should I call her? I am not attached to her or anything. It's mostly that they usually call me, so this has me wondering.
2006-10-26 15:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get that this is her playing a game, but like someone else said, she is not into games, she didn't play any before. I suspect she is mad because I left.
I did send her a message, but she hasn't been online to check her personal messages.
She is a live in sitter, so calling her isn't that easy, since someone else could anwer.
2006-10-26 15:53:48 · update #1
She suggested being FWB.
2006-10-26 16:06:00 · update #2
If you arent attracted to her then dont trip. She obviously knows how to get at you since you say you arent attracted to her but yet you are tripping. She obviously likes to play games and life is hard enough without having someone mess with you which she is doing and very well if you ask me. If you really dont like her then forget her and stop tripping. Not every girl you go out with is going to call you back either.
2006-10-26 15:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by hersheynrey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, HELLO, do you not think that you hurt her feelings?? First of all you say FWB but does she feel the same way? Could it be that she wants more? That is what it sounds like. Also you can be online and invisible so she is getting your messages...lol. As for not calling, I don't think it's a game. You hurt her and she is probally just cutting her loose and moving on. If you really do like her then call her and take the chance and just ask for her. I'm sure she has friends that call her where she lives so it can't be that hard.
2006-10-26 22:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's getting revenge for you leaving. She may just be some ***** who gets everything her way, and you didn't do what she wanted, so she wants you to hurt. To feel her pain. Don't worry about it. Forget her. You only live once...
2006-10-26 22:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by save trestles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just decided not to get involved since it appears she wants different things than you. Maybe call her but if she doesn't call back, then let her be.
2006-10-26 22:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by ~ â?¥ ~ Annette ~ â?¥ ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her feelings were hurt. She had idealistic thoughts about being with you. Give her some time if you care for her, otherwise, let it go. She at that time thought she wanted more.
2006-10-26 22:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested. But since curiosity hasn't killed the cat yet, call her to confirm my answer.
2006-10-26 22:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by mz. t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are different and sometimes its not best to play games iwth them...sometimes you have to show your interested esp. when she shows an interest in you...she allready made the first move and now its your turn to make the second
2006-10-26 22:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not into playing games
2006-10-26 22:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her but don't tell her how you feel, and don't tell her who you are, and don;t hang up on her. she'll get the message.
2006-10-26 22:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋