ok so im 17 im going to night school cuz my mom works i babysitte him from 5am to 5pm i have to clean the house bath the baby and make food so when she gets home she has something to eat i have wash every bodys clothes is the house 8 people cook for all them and i have to bay sitte a little boy that my mom told her mom i would baby sitte him when she did not even say anything to me i got up and the kid was there and he is 3 and i also baby site my aunts kid wich is 2 and its verry hard for me to do all that in the hole day and i start school at 6 and get out at 8:30 today my mom got home and my baby brothers diper was dirty i had diner was not done yet and yelled at me and i walked out of the house so i would not have to here her so i said i was not gonna babysite no more and she sadi i had to work and quit school so im in deep shiit what do i do please help me
2006-10-26 15:01:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first of all take a deep breath.
ok, now go to ur mother and tell her that u r not babysittin any more. u do not deserve to have to do all that ****. its ur mum's kid not urs. she decided to have kids so she has to take on the respnsibilities if being a mum. that includes changing dirty diapers, making din, doin laundry and all that ****. if she does not accept ur resegnation tell her to f**k off and that ur gonna file an abuse report against her .
ur education is way more importent then pleasing ur mum.(she better be paying u babysitting and doing the shitty housework) if she kicks u out im pretty sure u have the strength to carry on. u must be strong to able to juggle all the crap u do.
p.s.
SHE BETTER BE PAYING YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 15:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by WHO ARE You? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really bad situation! You need to put yourself first for once. Dont quit school no matter what - do your best to get good grades because that is your key out of your house. Your 17 and soon you will be old enough to escape by going to school. Go to school on student loans and look into grants and scholarships. There is so much out there that you would be eligable for. It will be hard to deal with your current situaion until then, but its not much longer... look into your options for a state school that has dorms & look into what financial options you have. I really wish there was more suggestions i could give you but getting out of there is the only thing I can really see helping you.
2006-10-26 22:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, there is no winners in this type of situation. Everyone is being stretched, just to survive.
If the baby is NOT yours, the baby is NOT your responsibility. It is the parent's responsibility. If they need you to help with the child, then need to ASK for help, not demand.
You mentioned an Aunt. What about other relatives helping with the child, children, or whatever? Someone can take turns.
YOU need to finish school. There is NO discussing this one. If not, you will end up trapped in a series of dead end jobs for the rest of your life. Sorry everyone, THIS VOLUNTEER is quitting unless I am treated with respect.
2006-10-26 22:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that that is not right, your education should be first before babysitting. you should stand up to her and not make dinner for a week or something like that. i do not know any mom that does that to her kids, it is diffidently not good. i agree with u u are not in a good situation, well please e-mail me back. i would like 2 talk 2 u. how are your grades, are you in high school or college? Isn't it impossible to study? you should go on Dr. Phil! really. i think you should, at least you are allowed to go on the e-net. but it is really bad that you have to do all of that. luv ya. please e-mail me back at debbiehowell7@yahoo.com Thank u. you should also try to move to ur friends house or someting so that u will not have to stay there.
2006-10-26 22:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by ... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would move out and get a part-time job and go to school during the day. Plus I would tell your mother to get a life and pay a professional to do her dirty work.
2006-10-26 22:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT quit school. If you do what you just described will be your life. Get help! Talk to someone you can trust. Start with social services. Your lot in life is not to be a slave.
2006-10-26 22:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by La-z Ike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are only 17, but you need to get out of that environment... you seem to have your head on straight in trying to get your education.... I wish you the best of luck.... but your mother needs to take responsibility for you and the other children... SHE IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE ADULT...
2006-10-26 22:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god hun I'm so sorry. since your working so hard anyway maybe u should get a job and go to school so u can have your own place. it sounds better than where your at.GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-26 22:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by shanadam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not your responsibility.... to babysit every-one.....
find a relative, or good friend to move in with......
go to school, get a part time job, and cook for
you and your room-mate........after a while, your mom
will realize what she's missed out on........
just try it.........
2006-10-26 22:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get out of there. it sounds like she is using you.
2006-10-26 22:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋