this guy who i really really like is a junior. im a freshman. i really wanna ask him to homecoming. but whenever im with him, i feel the need to ask him. but i can never bring myself to ask him. what do i do? how do i get rid of this feeling thats telling me to not ask him? i know he's gonna be there anyway (we're both in student council... because of this, we have to go) all of my friends are telling me to ask him. but i just cant do it. anyone had this problem... help is extremely appreciated. thx
2006-10-26 14:58:54 · 8 answers · asked by Starburst 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres a little problem... hes a muslim and im a hindu. as a kid, ive been told not to talk to muslims. but i do anyway. how do i ask him and not step on a fine line?
2006-10-26 15:03:57 · update #1
Contrary to what the movies would suggest, the worst thing that could happen in asking a guy out is that he could say no. A guy will not mess around with your feelings, if you ask and he says no, that means he doesn't dig you and you can move on.
2006-10-26 15:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you have to gain more self confidence. Once you feel good about yourself, you will feel more secure to ask him. I understand what you are saying because if he says no, you will still have to see him at the party. But you never know until you try. Think positive and go for it. Good Luck
2006-10-26 22:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by bonbon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask him! You never know he might say yes! But, i think that you shouldn't give up! You need to be brave and ask him to homecoming, it's worth a try! Good Luck!
2006-10-26 22:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be blunt...but you get rid of the feeling by asking him..there is no solution to being nervous...you really like the guy its natural...but you have to sack up the balls and just go for it
2006-10-26 22:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him right away. You know if you wait to long someone else might snatch him up & you might miss something good. The most he can say is "NO". Better to ask & put your mind at rest then to beat yourself up being afraid. If you are to afraid to ask face to face maybe call him & ask? Good luck!
2006-10-26 22:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by loveable_babygirl1964 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him, but know this. Juniors are horn dogs and if you're not ready to put out don't ask him.
2006-10-26 22:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a note asking him then have a friend give it to him
2006-10-26 22:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the worst outcome? He won't go.
If you do not ask what is the worst outcome? He will not go.
So... Ask him
:)
2006-10-26 22:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋