2006-10-26 14:55:04 · 17 answers · asked by tdwdrifter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can understand your pain right now and also there may be anger, resentment and guilt.
Right now it may seem a bit of a rollercoaster of emotions and confusion. Don't despair.
I recommend you take time now to go within. Look inside and spend time on understanding yourself, the relationship and learning the lessons from this situation. As you do, you will understand better your own needs and desires, then you will be able to make them happen. I recommend the book "Extreme Breakup Recovery" here you will find a simple easy way to understand the healing process and get over the strong emotions you may be feeling, and to increase your self-esteem.
As you spend this quality time with yourself, everything will start to fall into place.
You deserve a great relationship, and it starts with you.
2006-10-26 15:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by madisonsmommy2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked when are you going to find true love the second time around? After some time of feeling like your world has come to an end and that there is not going to be a tomorrow, you will realize that you, can be able to live again and you will start feeling better, and will be able to feel alive again with the hope that there is always someone for you one of this days, and before you know it you will be able to meet and hopefully find That someone who is sweet , kind and above all else loves you for what you are. I wish you the best in your life.
2006-10-26 15:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't recommend you go looking for love again. It will find you when the timing is right. You don't want to hook up with someone right away as it would only be a "rebound" relationship and they usually don't last. You want a great relationship, wait until you have healed. It may take a year or more, but you will heal and meet someone even more wonderful.
2006-10-26 14:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I would let time heal your wounds..Don't go out looking for love. That's probally the worst mistake you can make...People generally want to find someone to mend them and make them feel better, But truthfully, the healing lies within you..Just wait and you'll see, Have a real close friend to talk too..to help you through it..Good Luck
2006-10-26 14:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by mmarie1221 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love you. but I love who I am when I'm with you. Love is a never ending feeling ......................................... Your lips speak soft sweetness your touch a cool caress I'm lost in your magic My heart beats within your chest I think of you each morning and dream of you each night I think of your arms around me holding me tight and I can not express my delight Never have I fallen But i'm quickly on my way you hold a heart in your hands that has never been given away .. hope this helps. cp
2016-03-28 08:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let love happen. don't make a conscious effort to... because chances are you will be disappointed. to let love find you: assess yourself... would you want to date yourself? so, find that sunshine streak in you, be cheerful, indulge in activities... get support from your family and friends and love yourself again. cherish the past and learn something from there. it's always better to have loved (which you did)... take a day at a time. it's not easy, but determination always prevails... all the best
2006-10-26 15:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any girlfriends with little kids, go and play with them. If nothing else there little smiles and giggles can make your day. Kids give the best kind of love, they're innocent, they wont judge you, and once your in their hearts they'll love you forever.
2006-10-26 15:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by green_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look any time soon. You are vulnerable at this point and need a little 'alone' time until you can think about another person.
Take it easy for a while. That person will come in to your life, even if you dont look for him.
2006-10-26 14:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by Gentle Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there isn't a place for that. You meet the love of your life in any situation. Wish you luck!
2006-10-26 14:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your tears will dry..your heart will mend..your love will not be lost...
Just you sit my lil' honey child..absorb life.and learn..you'll be just fine.
love and its sweetness is all around
2006-10-26 15:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by brennastarr24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋