My bf has a half naked girl on his computer,and i'm not sure but i think the same girl tried calling while i was using the phone,do i have the right to be mad?Cause he's saying I'm not suppose to be he only talk to her because I didn't have to time to be there for him
2006-10-26 14:54:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she didnt have a top on thats half naked
2006-10-26 15:12:31 · update #1
what a load of rubbish - if anyone ever tries to blame you for them cheating, they are manipulating you. get out while you can!
2006-10-26 14:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you definitly have the right to be mad at him. The only time when I would question whether it is ok or not is if he does not know the girl and it is some model, but only with clothes on. You say half naked does that mean topless cuz I have heard people say half naked and been referring to a bikini. I think the main reason you should be mad is that he said he only has it there cuz you didn't have time for him, sounds like is trying to get you jeoulous which reflects his insecurities and insecure people usually don't have healthy relationships.
2006-10-26 22:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ben V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeh be angry. I'd be so hurt and peed off!
Sounds a lil suss actually..
Just because you didnt have time to be there for him doesnt mean he has the right to go off and chat to other unknown women and put a half naked picture of her on the computer!!
2006-10-26 22:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by samchic86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A half naked girl that he knows personally? Yeah, you have a right to be mad!
2006-10-26 21:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by jadedgirl149 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him!
I work many long hours as a nurse and my boyfriend is retired. Some nights I can home, shower, and go straight to bed. My guy is alone, but need to fill his time with "half naked women".
2006-10-27 18:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its one thing to talk to her...sure, but to have her half naked on the computer...that in its self would p!$$ me off.
2006-10-26 21:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What lame excuse...you have every right to be mad at him if you ask me. Dump him already if you don't want yourself hurt. He prefers that girl over you. If not, then why is your picture not on the computer screen?
2006-10-26 21:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he might just be having you as a side girlfriend. And if you dont like that title I suggest you break up with him as soon as possible. If he talks to her when your not around what else is he doing with her that he cant do with you cause your not there?
Think About It.
2006-10-26 22:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by Diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree that you should be angry with him. He is just trying to rationalize cheating on you by blaming it on you. He sounds like he is probably possessive about your time but does not have to account to you with what he does with his. If I were you i would start looking for someone who can be open and honest and appreciate a good person like you.
2006-10-26 21:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lame excuse. You should be mad. you don't need to be there 24/7. I would break up w/him!!
2006-10-26 21:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two can play that game. I suggest you find a back-up man. This one likes playing games.
2006-10-26 21:57:19 · answer #11 · answered by jipsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋