my bf thinks just because i wanna have sex with him we have to do it right then and there. or if he starts kissing me on the neck, he thinks we have to have sex right then and there. we have sex alot, but we dont have to do it at every drop of a hat! when i say no he says im getting the attitude and then wants to know why i "lead him on". what do i do in this situation?
2006-10-26 14:50:23 · 7 answers · asked by cane_gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you guys are obviously different...and when he kisses you or does anything sexual he expects to have sex...but what you need to do is if he starts kissing you and you dont want to have sex...tell him we can kiss but I am just letting you know I dont want to have sex tonight..and if he keeps going after that then you need to get mad at him and let him know that that is not cool
2006-10-26 15:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is being selfish. He can't expect you to perform every time he wants to. Explain to him that a woman's desires are different than a man's and he needs to be more tolerant. Otherwise, tell him he's not getting any unless he gives you some consideration.
2006-10-26 21:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say screw u whore!!!! lol just kidding say im not u started it and if u dont liek that i dont want SEX ever f*cking day every minute then were going to break up im not a whore like u think i am so yeah 2
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2006-10-26 21:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Miley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm and tell him, "no means no" when he starts kissing your neck. Tell him everything you have written above in your question. The important thing is to tell him exactly how you feel.
2006-10-26 21:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say NO and mean it...dont talk or play areound with him just to appease or calm him.
he will probably start getting worst testing your resolve, thats when you get help...friends family or the law.
2006-10-26 21:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by chctaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down. Say no, and you mean it, and walk away. If he's still too dense to get it, try involving the police.
2006-10-26 21:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his a s s
2006-10-26 21:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥tawnyrose♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋