Do you think that i should go out with this boy that i have known for 3 years?

Question

but here is the catch he jus told me that he has a 10 month old son i really like him and i have known him really long but i dont want to be no one Step Mom plz help i have no clue what to do

Answer 1

If you've already made up your mind that you don't want to be a stepmom, then you should remain friends with the man, but don't go any further. They are a package deal, accept the man, accept the child.

Answer 2

not for nothing, but if you have known him for 3 years than how did you not know he had a son? anyway, if your not ready to comit yourself than i would have to say NO. it's always differant when children are involved