what do i do?

Question

thanks for all the answers so far guys..... but.... this girl wont stop contacting my fiance.... he and she both say that they are friends... she knows we have a relationship... and that we fight because she talks to him.... she called last night at midnight..... who calls their friend at midnight when they know that they are with someone and they have a kid... unless they want the to come over?.... honestly..... i am seriously considering therapy because the whole situation makes me sad..... he doesn't want to give up their friendship, or our relationship.... but i can't be with him if he doesn't give it up..... i can't tell him what to do.... but if i don't it wont be done.... his ex used to call and stalk like this girl and it didn't stop for two years.... when i finally yelled at him.... and i don't know if that would be the best thing..... again... help

Answer 1

don't waste any more time on him.... break out your little black book and see how he likes that.....

Answer 2

If you answer the phone when she calls try being nice to her ask her how things in her life are going, maybe if she feels the two of you are bonding she will feel uncomfortable asking to talk with him. It could work, she might still have some morale backbone

Answer 3

If you have said to him, "its either her, or me" and he chose not to cool it with her, I think the writing is on the wall. You can either put up with it or leave.

I think if he saw you putting your stuff into boxes he would get the message real quick. Meanwhile, he doesn't think you're serious.

Answer 4

damn selfish guy you got! doesn't even care about you and how you feel! talk to him seriously that if he doesn't break up with that girl, you will be leaving for gd and make sure you mean it. gd luck and be strong :)