I understand that a relationship is more than sex..but sex plays a huge part in it, without sex you would have just a wonderful friendship. Why are women such as myself being lectured for taking their sex lives into their own hands and saying "Yes your penis is too small, and you need to satisfy my needs also". What is wrong with a woman wanting awesome sex and intense love? I see so many women settling for eh..so so love and okay sex, it is ridiculous. For some of us, the motion of the ocean bit just doesn't work, I need a raging C**k not a talented finger..or tongue for that matter. Why is this wrong and why are women not getting everything they want out of every aspect in life?
2006-10-26 14:45:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looks like I hit home for findizzle...I'm sorry you are in the "group" little man...good luck to you and your fat gut.
2006-10-26 14:54:47 · update #1
hahah...that is awesome! Im so with you!
2006-10-26 14:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Smart Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's because most women back in the day where only with one or two men and as time moved on and the sex got better between them the saying size doesn't matter came screaming out. Now though, We are trying new things and are defiantly getting with more then just two or three or even 50 different people for that matter before we settle down. But yes size dose matter I have been told this by several women who could not be pleased with the standard 4-6" c**ks they needed 8-10". So girl your not alone, lots of girls out there are thinking just like you there just trying not to hurt the guys ego. But you got to get your rocks off too, so go get some of that 10" loven!!!
2006-10-26 14:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aparently you DON'T understand that a relationship is more than sex. This post proves that. I'll agree with you that sex is very important and you have every right to have a preference - to each his/her own - but the way you're saying it is very callous and inconsiderate. People can't help who they are or what they're born with. To belittle and cut a guy down for not being up to your standards is just plain wrong. Imagine being a guy and hearing that. You could give someone a complex and cause them to feel so badly about themselves that they have a hard time being with a girl. Can't you see why that would be wrong? Doesn't every person deserve to be in a loving relationship? You think it's ok to hurt people that way?
The way I see it is... You are not born liking big penises. That is an aquired taste - something you have to do a lot of "stretching" for. My guess is your vagina looks like a sloppy roast beef sandwich and you're just angry it's so banged up.
Quite an announcement to make to everyone!
2006-10-26 15:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong... it's just a personal issue.
For women like you and I, sexual chemistry is an important part of a relationship. However (as inconcievable as it may seem), there are others out there that aren't as sexual as we are, so for them size may not matter as much.
In addition, I believe that not all women are the same "size" either. Sure, the vaginal tissues are made to accommodate a variety of sizes, but our bodies still vary in size in all other ways, so why would that one part be uniform across all females?
I personally have experienced too small, too big, and just right. In fact, because of an irregular tilt of my uterus, smaller men cause me pain as they hit against my cervix. I had to have damaged areas removed when I was married. After my divorce, when I was with a MUCH larger man, I thought it would hurt worse - but the opposite was true, and there was no pain. However, there was less sensitivity overall, which I realized when I was with my last boyfriend, who was a perfect fit. I felt every thrust and throb... Mmmm...
So there is nothing wrong in wanting sexual fulfillment as part of a relationship. Just recognize that not all people have the same priorities and preferences as we do. And at least be polite and diplomatic when making the decision that the guy is not equipped to satisfy you. There is no need to belittle him (pun intended- LOL) in the process.
2006-10-26 14:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by HearKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like the size of a mans penis, the canal of a woman also comes in various sizes. You never hear of a man complaining about a woman being too loose or too tight, right? It isn't the size of the man that really matters, it's the individual fit between both partners. Some peoples genitals just don't fit well together. If you care about someone who doesn't fit well with you then there are ways you can work around it.
2006-10-26 14:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by jipsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from. Yes size does matter for me. Luckily I got the right fit in my hubby-hehe. I do not want some man with a tiny or big as a horse. To each his own, but I do think sex and intimate time are very important in a marriage to stay close and feel connected no matter what people say. I think both partners need to feel pleased and enjoy it. Hey if the shoe don't fit then don't wear it. I surely don't want to be left barefooted.
2006-10-26 14:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by hehmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it depends on what you are looking for. If all you want is a sexual relationship, then by all means don't hook up with Mr. PeeWee! Date and then find someone that you are physically satisfied with. Women tend to "settle for anything" because of their own insecuries and low self-esteem. The possibilities would be endless if we as women were a little more selective and raised our standards. A little prayer helps too!
2006-10-26 15:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by mz. t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this. Do you think that a guy should say something similar to a woman? It's about sensitivity. Do what we do. Say "it's not you, it's me." Don't mess with someones sexual self-esteem if you can avoid it.
Love is an amazing thing that overrides the shallower needs, but I know what you mean. Don't be afraid to get everything you want, but remember to make sure that you also deserve it.
2006-10-26 14:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because for a woman to be satisfied does not always depend on the (....) . It depends on that she tells the guy what she wants ! Trying out new stoff etc . Everywoman has different needs . I rather have a man that can satisfy my overall needs to be satisfied that hears me what I want also the sansuality etc. not just the (.....)
2006-10-26 14:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some men need big t*ts to get off, like some women (like yourself) need raging c**ks. That's the way it is. If a man OR a woman can afford to be choosy, then so be it!
2006-10-26 14:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says they aren't ? If a woman wants a huge co*k on the man she marrys .. so ? Easy enough to find a guy to fit that bill. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-26 14:47:51 · answer #11 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋