am i a whore?

Question

who would think someone was a whore if they lost their virginity at 14?

Answer 1

If that makes you a whore then there are a lot of them out there these days. My niece lost hers at 15 yrs old. I am not happy that she did, but I do not look at her as a whore. Kids are curious & it seems they are trying things at a younger age. I think all girls should be put on birth control by their parents to make sure if their child is out there doing this that they will not have a child to raise at a young age. Unfortunately, my niece is 5 months pregnant from her long term boyfriend & even though it upsets me I will stand by her & help her as much as I can. I love her that much. Kids just use protection! A whore is someone that is sleeping with a big quantity of boys/men in my eyes not someone that lost their virginity at 14 yrs old. I can say I was 18 yrs old when I lost mine, but years change as years go by & parents need to open their eyes to this.

Answer 2

It depends. I lost my virginity at 15. I have only been with that first guy and my current bf. I wouldnt consider someone a whore without knowing the whole story. So no you arent a whore.

Answer 3

I think it depends on the person. 14 is a bit young in this culture. But "whore" is a very demeaning term. There is a total double standard for which woman get the backlash. There are a lot of factors involved when someone decides to have sex for the first time. But the most important thing, I think, is that every person you have sex with you are leaving a piece of yourself behind. Sex is a beautiful expierence but Id be lying if I said I never had sex, just because of the feeling. Woman have an internal dialogue with sex our hormones get involved. Men dont have the same chemical balance. Just remember that whatever you do, its your decision and dont feel pressure by anyone.

Answer 4

no that really does not make you a whore you just wanted early experience i had very early experience i lost mine at 12 and i had sex with a boy that was a virgin so i think that it was better for both of us
so really your not a whore it may have seemed like the right thing to do but now it is coming back to you in a bad way but don't let it be a bad way

Answer 5

No, I would think someone was a whore at the age of 14. However I would pity them because that is too young for someone to be sexually active. There's a good deal of sexual immaturity involved along with emotional maturity not being fully developed either.

Answer 6

In general terms a lot of people would say yes, but i think it all depends on how you lost it. Were you pressured into it? Were you raped? Was it your personal choice? It all depends, and if you think your a whore then you are. Keep up the self confidence and you can be whatever you want to be, try your hardest and achieve your goals.

Answer 7

no,you are not a whore!! i have a 14 year old and if i found out she lost her virginity,i`d have to do some serious talking with her.it`s a wonderful thing to experience,but with the true one you love.take your time dear.you are young and the right person for you will be there.if this guy is mr.right,then he will give you respect and time you deserve.please don`t be fooled by puppy-love.it can get you in trouble.be strong enough to say no!!!!!! you are the one in control.what do your parents say??take care and you are not a whore!! we all make mistakes,just be smart enough to learn from them.you will do the right thing.best of luck!!!!!!

Answer 8

You are not a whore because you lose your virginity at age 14. You are, however, too young to be engaging in sexual activity. I don't understand why girls want to grow up so fast.

Answer 9

Who called you a w***e? Was it your mom or dad? Was it the boy you lost your virginity to? Was it a friend you told and maybe she liked the boy you were with? Why did you have sex with this boy? Did he say he loved you? Do you think you love him? Are you still having s*x with him?

You are not a w***e, but you are moving in the wrong direction if you want to have a reasonably happy life. If you were to get pregnant, or a s*xually transmitted disease you would soon see that s*x was not worth it. Not to mention loosing the respect of whoever called you a w***e. It must bother you or you wouldn't have asked this question.

Ask yourself why you had s*x so young. What is going on in your life that made you even want to do that? I realize boys at that age are ready for anything, but girls, well, many will do it just because the boy pressures them, or convinces them that they are "in love" and will say "if you love me you will."
Please realize that if he really loves you, he won't.

Please hear what I'm saying. You are worth more than handing yourself over to a boy that may not care about you tomorrow. If you had gotten pregnant do you think he would have stayed with you, or hit the door running? This boy was thinking of himself only. You, unfortunately, went along with it. And my guess is you were wondering afterwards what all the hype was about. Trust me, a 14 male is only thinking of himself when it comes to using a girl.

I don't know if you regret what you did, or if you feel it is a badge of honor. There is no honor in giving youself to a boy who doesn't love you with his whole heart. And one day, way down the road, you hopefully will find a good man and he will find you and love you for more than what he can get from you. But, if you stay on the path you're going down now, it may be hard to look yourself in the face and think you are worthy of any man.

So, if you do regret what you've done, make up your mind to start over right now and decide that you will wait for the right man, the man that really loves you, and one you trust completely. If you do that, you will never have to ask that question again and you won't look on your past regretting anything.

If you don't regret what you've done, then I'm afraid you could be in for a lot of heartache. Please think about it.

Answer 10

not really...just not good at making smart choices. I don't mean that to sound cruel...its just good things come to those who wait...My sister lost hers when she was 13...and alot of people thought she was a whore because ya know most of the time you can't just do it once. Well she now has a 7mo little girl and she only is 16. (she had her two wks before turning 16) and now she can't live with our Mom (she is disabled) and has to live with someone else and barley gets to see the family because the girl she lives with is so controling. Anyway...this is what I mean by not being smart.