but i have feelings for one of my best friends (hes a guy) i think about him alot. I know that this is just stupid of me and my girl traits are kicking in. I know that being w/ my boyfriend is the best choice for me in the long run but i feel like im not being fair to him by having feelings for someone else. Me and my bf have been together for 3 years. I feel just awful about this..............what to do ......advice please
2006-10-26 14:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a life ?!?!
2006-10-26 14:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't choose one over the other, get rid of both of them. Being that you are tempted, it's a sign that you want better than you have. Also if your best friend isn't clearly better, then he's not mister right ether. You may want to stay with one to be safe, but if you want someone that will keep your full attention you should look for someone new. Don't waste time with someone that isn't the love of your life.
2006-10-26 21:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem last year, only me and my bf had been going out for four years. I know you dont want to make him feel bad but trust me breaking up wit him is the right thing to do. Ask the friend you like out, i did and things are goin great and my ex has a girlfriend who realy does like him.
2006-10-26 21:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kay Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being with someone just because they might be able to financially take care of you have materialistic things and ect is not a reasong to stay with someone you have to be in klove to have a relationship work and be happy,if you have feelingsd for someone else it might just be that you are not getting this attention from your boy friend so you are finding it else where it might not be actuall feelings you have for your friend,try spend more time with your boy friend get the attention you want if he doesnt give it to you then maby it is time to move on and be with someone who treats you the way you wanna feel
2006-10-26 21:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta choose. 3 years is a long time and it's good, but if you have feelings for osmeone else, it may be that the flame has gotten a tad bit dimmer. What you need to decide is to either let that flame go out, or add a little more fuel...
2006-10-26 21:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by iceclimbers1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably having feelings for your best friend because he has always been there for you! Stick with your boyfriend... especially if you have been with him for three years!! I went out with this guy for three years and now its over!! I still miss him everyday... his goofiness the way he laughed the way he always wanted to play video games! and we BROKE UP 5 MONTHS AGO!! I love him and if you love your boyfriend you WILL NOT leave him for a friend... and plus you dont even know if it will work out with this friend..and if it didnt you would lose a boyfriend and a best friend!!!
2006-10-26 21:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Alexandria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him! thats the first thing you need to do... honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship and or a break up if you wanna stay friends...have him help you. Thats all i can say. good luck
2006-10-26 21:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't fight physical attraction, hahha you're doomed. just kidding, it's not like you're married to him but don't let a good relationship go to waste because of a simple attraction. If it's more than that then go ahead.
2006-10-26 21:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋