Are all women GOLD-DIGGERS?

Question

I have a valid reason for asking such a question....Back in my student days when I was as penniless as tramp, no woman looked at me or wanted to know me, Now that Im a successful bussiness man, and drive a flash car they wont leave me alone...some of them act so damn desperate, it sickens me to be honest...

Answer 1

I'm not! I always make sure I pay for myself and if my date paid, I made sure I picked up the check or paid for something else later. For some reason I never felt comfortable having others pay for me. Think it might have something to do with a relative of mine who always had sugar daddies around, I definitely didn't want to turn into her.

I put my husband through college and I have always earned more than he does.

Answer 2

Not all women are "gold diggers." As with all people, personalities are different and so are motives. If you're put off by women who ask these questions about your life or seem interested in only what you have going on, ask the same questions of them. Some women want to know that they won't have to take care of a man, that a man can take care of himself and is not living on his parent's couch or in their basement. In essence, they don't want a "bum." For some women, nothing is worse than dating a man who is not at the same level where they are in their lives. However, if the women you meet don't have anything, but want you to have something just so they can be taken care of, then you know you're dealing with a "gold digger;" if the both of you are at equal footing, I doubt you have much to worry about.

Answer 3

No not all women are gold-diggers Im not in fact i have the same probable cept with guys they love my money and my parents because everyone knows that daddy loves to please his little girl, just becuse my parents make roughly about 380,000 dollars a year doesn't mean that guys should take advantage of it. My dad owns 3 companies, Gaurdian Alarms, Northern Alarm Contractors and Frye Excavation and Drilling, not to mention 50,000 stocks in Coca Cola and in Bp. I may be one of the rich beotches of the town but like I'm ever gonna date anyone from where I live they're gold diggers plain and simple glad you understand how it is to live the great life. Hope you have a great day and why have a flashy car when you can drive a Yamaha YZFR1V baby blue of course.

Answer 4

Ah, I know what you are saying.
Well, I have been with a man, who is working but who's income is not great. In fact we recently got kicked out form a place we were renting due to rent we owe. It happened because I became unable to work for a complicated reason. But back in the days he was not even working when I met him, and I worked my *** off to keep our place on national minimum wage that I was getting. There are some women like that. So not all women are digging up gold.
But I tell you what, those women around you now may all be gold diggers. Are they paying you attention because of your business, or flashy car? If so, then they are. And I wouldn't blame you for asking this question if that's all you know about women. Just be careful, not to be fooled by them, till you meet someone really nice.

Answer 5

No not ALL women are gold diggers in fact i think it is quite the opposite. I have met loads of guys that only want to be with me because i have a nice car and flat , I think it is an ego boost for them. I do appreciate how you feel though , and it is pathetic how desperate some people will get! The right person will come around one day and when she does you will just know that she is with you for you and not because of your money :)

Answer 6

Yes well speaking for ALL women. ALL women are not gold diggers ALL women are genetically designed to seek the most dominant male that they can find to have children with. If you ask me MOST women aren't gold diggers and MOST women are the ones that you are probably snubbing now that you have money and a flashy car.

I mean why did you buy a flashy car? Wh not a normal decent car that is nice. Let me tell you buddy your asking to attract ALL of those gold digging 20' somethings model wannabe's. If you had gone for a normal women ( you know the chick that is'nt like ALL women) you'd have a wife and a supportive spouse by now.

So stop bitching DORK.

Answer 7

No Sir, we are not all gold diggers and we are not all impressed by flashy cars Personally, it always makes me smile when I see a guy in a flashy car, I think of their car payments and smile......and think, either "he doesn't have any conversation, so he can always talk about his car" or "midlife crisis"......either cases, not flattering opinion of grown-up boys....
Did you ever ask yourself the question why you bought that flashy car ? Maybe because you wanted shallow women to throw themselves at you, you went for the shallow thing to own .....so I would say that part of your problem has to do with your own attitude....
Back in your student days, you must of been very unsure of yourself, shy, not going out much because you could not afford to; therefore the opportunities were not there for you to meet as many women.
Now that you" have it made", your attitude has changed, you are self-assured, and this is always appealing in a man as far as women are concerned, with or without a bank account.....
If you want to attract classy ladies, try to be classy yourself.....ditch the flashy car and go for something low-key but elegant...Stop flashing your $$ around and let women discover you for who you are, not what you are.......
Oh, and just so you know, I am more than comfortable financially and a man with a flashy car is a complete turn-off for me !
Good Luck !

Answer 8

Well with money you can actually afford to look your best, where you dressed like you are now back then?

Yes it may a bonus to some women but Imagine yourself in the same situation as them, maybe you would do the same thing?

But i must stress that if it just looks too good to be true the maybe its best to walk away. Part of life i guess, although don't think all of them are the same give that person a chance, everyone is an individual.

Answer 9

No
Not all women are gold diggers...a good portion yes especially people in school, they are dumb and haven't grown up. My man, no offense to him, is flat broke. Never had time to get a job cuz he was always helping out on his familys farm and such, now hes at college and well we all know college students can't save money well. LOL but ya no not all girls are. just ignore them and find your self a real girl, not one only after ur cash..
Good Luck and don't use hope

Answer 10

I can understand....that must be hard for a man....a male friend of mine used to have a weight problem...now that he is fit as hell all the girls throw themself at him , but wouldn't give him a second look before...people are shallow , and yet - gotta be honest - attraction IS important...and even tho i believe its THE HEART that matters...not the wallet , as a woman i would like to feel financially secure with a guy , you know - the provider thing - even though i am self sufficient , at the end of the day maybe at the back of a womans mind is ''can he look after me and the kids''....you know..WAY down the line - but still at the back of their mind maybe??
for me personally - i like it if a guy can take me out and treat me well (whats wrong with that?) but i would not take the p*ss and would rather have my own business and my own car...that i have worked for myself , and then be a team , i can't help feeling bad if a guy trys to ''live off me'' you must agree that is bad???
its a middle of the road meet halfway thing i think - NOT ONE SIDED EITHER WAY :-)
in your student days i would have said...''you bring the beans , i'll bring the bread!!'' lol

Answer 11

Well I haven't been gold digging since I was a child, then I was always out digging for gold or buried treasure. Now I'm a woman I certainly don't dig for gold!! It would break my nails, anyway I'm too busy looking for a rich man to play silly digging games!!

On a more serious note have you thought that maybe you are slightly better groomed now than you were in your student days and therefore women just find you more attractive now you're clean??