2006-10-26 14:24:28 · 13 answers · asked by carolianian85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can, only if the person allows it. My husband's parents didn't like me and my parents didn't like him. But they had to deal with it. Now they love the both of us and would fight anyone who said anything about us.
2006-10-26 14:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by lyrical 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. From experience I would know. I have been with my boyfriend for six years. His parents have never liked me. I do not understand why. Maybe because he is the oldest in his family and his mom didnt want to lose him since he and I were hanging out alot. But them not liking me has had a big impact on our relationship I absolutely hate going to their house for the holidays and he is a little angry with me. But if they were nicer I would not mind going there. Anyway if your sig others parents dont like you dont worry about it because what it all comes down to is that you two are happy with each other. This is what we realized. He finally told his parents that nothing they would say would ever keep me away and that we are serious about each other and it is none of their business because he loves me. So lately things have been okay although I know inside his parents despise me. On the other hand I know that our relationship is stronger than their not liking me. So F them.
2006-10-26 14:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by vidamar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriends family HATE me,they have since we met(6 years ago),but it doesn't really matter anyway.We've been together 6 years now,and we're getting married in a month!
2006-10-26 14:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by smallish baby budge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know that the answer is obviously yes in big capital letters. You have to get along with your bfs/ gfs natural baggage to some extent.
2006-10-26 14:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes alot of the fun out it. You won't get invited to there family stuff. Cookouts. Hangout at sisters. BLAH BLAH BLAH...So they go, you stay. They always have their peeps in there ear telling them you no good for them. Its a definatley an uphill battle.
2006-10-26 14:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but if the person remains calm, courteous and considerate with no nasty behaviors . . . the bf / gf will see that they are worth it and the family may even come around.
2006-10-26 14:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, this can really affect your relationship. But the choice is still yours. if you really loves he/she, this doesn't really matters. Just let your partner knows in a good manner way, i', sure he/she can understand. if possible just move out and go visit them sometimes. if this problem can't be resolve, then move on.
2006-10-26 14:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mohawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i does. relation with a family, nobody can't break down. but if one shows respect and love for his/her gf's or bf's family, this problem can be solved. it's all about making good impression to the family.
2006-10-26 14:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it makes a big difference, after all they're family and you can't break-up with family...
2006-10-26 14:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it really does dear!!!... we have the same situation right now!... the only thing i need to advice you is,,, you both need to talk about it clearly!... you have to make a good decision so that your relationship we'll last long!... dont worry about it right now... just enjoy being with him!... both of you can make a very beautiful and happy memories together!!!... ok???... god bless and good luck!
2006-10-26 14:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋