Just wondering why itis that men my age (45) are either out looking for sex and a younger woman, when there are plenty of women my age that truly appreciate a good-looking man who is established in their lives and not wanting to take them for granted?
2006-10-26 14:16:45 · 15 answers · asked by Tammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with most of the answers that I have recieved....I just wonder if there are any good-looking man who are established who would like to meet a woman who is mature of course but playful and fun?
Actually there are alot of women my age (45) that enjoy sex tremendously and are more eager to explore new things that make that part of a relationship better and interesting, yet i have discovered that men don't listen to women enough to know that, although there is truly much more to a relationship that sex.
2006-10-26 14:48:54 · update #1
Because most men are selfish pigs and think they can get whatever they want.
2006-10-26 14:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the time most men hit your age they finally have hit the maturity of the younger women they go after. I don't mean any offense to you. I agree that there are plenty of women that appreciate a good-looking man who is established and not wanting to take them for granted. The problem is that the men can't truly appreciate the good-looking women who want to love them. (also some are just sick.)
2006-10-26 14:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by green_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are shallow and emotionally immature. A lot of us are like that, I would say I was for a while. But for some reason I just dont find women my age to be that appealing (29). They either are divorced and/or have children, and call me an ahole if you want but I wont go there, or they are desperate to get married and have children. I am very playful and I want someone who is not so future oriented. Now granted I dont have a huge pool of which to look at, but thats what I have encountered so far. But, there is a point where you go too low.
2006-10-26 14:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is just my opinion. But younger women make them feel younger. Most men in particular dont' want to grow up, they just want the money of a grown up since money = power, and power can get u whatever u want. Men want to be noticed too. No one's gonna look at him admiringly if he's out there with an attractive woman his own age, but if he's out there with a gal his daughter's age, wow! His peers will be jelous. No one needs to know who really wears the pants in the family. Besides, a lot of guys use their prestige to control their pretty young things; and women their age are too mature and smart for that.
2006-10-26 14:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about sex and lloks. Usually a younger woman will engage in sex more frequently then a older female so why should a man bother with an older female if he isn't going to any 'action'
A younger female's body in most cases will also be more appealing then a 45 year old.
2006-10-26 14:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Bigi Bal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men have a natural fear of getting older. It's called a mid life chrisis. It happens around that age and they look for younger women to make them feel young and they usually are restless, dye their hair, buy a sports car or a motorcycle, and are very restless. Try for a guy over 50 cause it takes that long to get over the phase.
2006-10-26 14:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by mksjmyd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think the younger women make them feel younger and i know they say women are in their prime at the age of 40 but i dont believe it i work with way too many and a lot of them are not interested in sex and the men have came across one or two of those and it is just a sterotype now they think they are all that way
2006-10-26 14:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by angie_d_121074 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because by the time men are 45 and single they have had there fair share of nagging loss of sex on every other week day from a wife who just cant be bothered and have had enough of being told what to do they just want to have fun and thats usually with ayoung er girl because they are imature and dont see alot of what the men can get away with
2006-10-26 14:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say that it seems like men that age are going through a midlife crisis and want that young - thing to make them feel good- there are some decent ones out there- it will take some time and patience- D
2006-10-26 14:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard that when a older man dates younger women its because they themselves want to feel younger..there afraid because there getting older that they aren't Good enough anymore..We all know that , that's not true..but tell that to men
2006-10-26 14:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by tazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men your age usually have been already married and burnt. My brother is the same way. he has been married and hurt, so he now only wants to "use" a woman for sex.
2006-10-26 14:20:02 · answer #11 · answered by eh77530 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋