im pretty and all, and guys like me its just i can never get them to ask me out. or something else. i dont know what to do.
2006-10-26 14:16:05 · 17 answers · asked by mae mae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh HONEY.
I went through the exact same THING.
DON'T WORRY.
I know it's like, everyone seems to have a bf but you.
But is it really all that great?
I mean, it takes all the fun out. Think about it...
If you had a bf, flirting would be a no-no.
And I mean, do you really NEED a bf?
What's the POINT?
The whole point of dating is to find the person you
want to spend the rest of your life with.
Can you think of anyone in your class(es) that you
would want to spend the rest of your life with?
I am a teenager, and I sure can't.
I have had exactly 3 boyfriends.
One, doesn't count...i was little.
Two, was a guy that asked out every girl in the school, so he doesn't count either.
Three was the one that really mattered.
My first REAL boyfriend.
I really liked him,
but he ended up cheating on me and is now going out with another girl.
He wasn't at all the guy i had a crush on before i went out with him.
Guys are undependable, most of the time.
Just wait, and your perfect guy will find you.
*The grass is always greener on the other side*
Trust me, if you get a boyfriend at this age, you will soon be having thoughts about being single again. Just because everyone else has a bf - that doesn't mean u need one.
*Your prince will come. Mine just got lost and is too stubborn to aske for directions*
Don't worry. You will eventually find that special guy. Just don't rush it.
<3 Hope I helped. Really. I know how it is.
2006-10-26 14:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by just me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's your issue.
You're thinking of a boyfriend as a possesion, not as a person. You're supposed to love your boyfriend for who he is, not what he is. There's no point in having a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. If you do that, you're relationship will never last anyways.
Think of it this way... it's not that you haven't had a boyfriend, it's that you haven't met a guy good enough for you yet. You'll meet him I promise! Hang in there! And don't just date someone to date someone! You're first love should be special!
Don't worry! I was in your same boat, and I was convinced something was wrong with me. Then I met an amazing guy in my sophmore year of highschool and we've been together ever since. He's everything i've ever wanted in a boyfriend. You'll find that too! Just be patient! :)
2006-10-26 14:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend at your age. You need to worry about your education and your own family. A true Boy that likes you will come to your parents and ask to court you or date you and get permission. You have a few years ahead before you get more serious in a boy.
2006-10-26 14:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in 8th grade. what do you assume, to get married or something? relationships at your age ought to be relaxing and flirty. You''re no longer even in highschool yet, and believe me, you have lots to look forward to :)! there are a super form of fish interior the sea; you purely have not met them yet!
2016-11-25 22:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur young u still lots of time 2 be thinking bout boys and hving a BF.. im in 10th grade.. i hve lots of guys friends.. n like some guys and stuff.. but im 2 busy 2 hve a bf right now.. its all good.. just wait ur get one..
2006-10-26 14:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by ღ~♥~ღKCღ~♥~ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till ur in high school. then they'll start pouring to youu. 8th grade?? The guys didnt even get their hormones yet, and they're too innocent( they 're SHY). But girls are more mature then boys in middle school.
Just wait till ur in high school OR ask them out..
2006-10-26 14:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One does not need a b/f to define themselves. Give it time 8th grade is a little early to be worried about such things
2006-10-26 14:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i am having the same problem but i like this and he knows i like him and people are telling me that he likes me but he wont ask me out but i am totally obsesed with him. So don't feel bad i have the same problem i am in the 8th grade to!
2006-10-26 14:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by roxygirl24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't worry about it, guys are shy that age. You're young and will have lots of guys asking you out in time.
2006-10-26 14:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know what if you like someone
GO FOR IT!!!!!!
but if you dont like any1
then it just not time for you to have a bf
when it happens it happens
and when it iz time it will all form
hope this was of some help to you
if not it was wrth a try
2006-10-26 14:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by wheneva_u_need_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋