I met this girl through seemingly random circimstances on myspace, she's about three hours from me but due to our situations we can't meet in person for a while(maybe two months.) We started off sending emails then on the phone and the more I know about her the more I want to know about her. She seems perfect to me, and what's even better, she feels the same about me! It's crazy, we're totally devoted to one another without even seeing each other in person. Can it be true love at no sight? I believe in fate and in soulmates. I also believe in taking it slow but these feelings don't let it go slow. Can this be true or is it too early to tell?
2006-10-26 13:59:42 · 15 answers · asked by tallspot07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever seen, "You've Got Mail" or "The Lake House"? Although I know they are Hollywood movies, there is real truth to this situations. Like I have fallen in love with a guy whom I have only seen for a few times.
Then my father has fallen in love with a woman who lives cross-country and he didn't see her for 3 months after they were dating and now they are getting married.
I think that it is totally possible, that these things happen. But make sure that you don't' rush it and don't ruin it.
After you do see each other and potentially part again, it is not easy to handle a long-distance relationship, keep that in mind.
2006-10-26 14:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by obcrazi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course, love is based on personality, not looks. So it could be possible that you two are soulmates. But you can never be too sure about internet relationships (or, in your case, talking on the phone). They are often phony. I'd be careful if I were you. Take things slow, and when you meet her in person, really try to identify her body language and things like that to tell whether she is really a slacker or not. Good luck though!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 14:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by save trestles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in ur situation before!!
Dont get too in over ur head ok mate... This chick mite sound like ur dream girl, and visa versa...
But once u meet inperson u mite find u both arent as enigmatic or nice as u were on the fone!!
I felt totally devoted to this guy when i was 17.. we chatted online, then on the fone and we eventually met... problem was he was in a wheelchair and he had lacked that bit in his story!!
He lied to me the whole time....
U need to be careful.. dont invest all ur feelings in this girl until u have met in person... believe me...
2006-10-26 14:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no I don't think you can fall in love with somebody you never seen. you enjoy conversations with her. but once you meet it's a whole new level but after then by spending time with each other and seeing some of there ways and they see yours good and bad then the question of whether or not you love this person comes??? once you meet it might not be the person you thought.
I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK
2006-10-26 14:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Pecantan81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, looks can be deceiving. The way I see it, you're doing something right by getting to know the girl as a person before seeing her. I wish you well.
P.S. Ever see Napoleon Dynamite? Napoleon's brother Kip did just that.
2006-10-26 14:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will not know till you meet in person!I met a guy I thought I was totally into and it wasn't the same in person!never know??
2006-10-26 14:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know of a couple who have been together for many many years.
They wrote to each other for a while. They never met each other. They got married right after they met. It's so sweet.
SO IT IS VERY POSSIBLE.
2006-10-26 14:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Possibly true love. (:
I don't know, my brother used to date online and met someone who lived like an hour away, and she turned out to be a back stabbing slut.
So who knows?
Good Luck! :D
2006-10-26 14:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Courtney 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you have answered your own question. you say you believe in fate and soulmates, so then the answer to your question seems to be yes. good luck homeboy
2006-10-26 14:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Selena Jade's Mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, BUT it's not a good idea try to meet with her or forget about her it can end up hurting you real bad
2006-10-26 14:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by e)v1n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋