Boyfriend and I have been together for only six months but he's fallen into the comfortable stage where he doesn't do the things he used to like gving me gifts, wanting to see me no matter how long or what, make love multiple times, and complimenting me. I'm still there but how do I get him back there?
2006-10-26 13:29:40 · 6 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The infatuation is over. It's now a matter of being compatible and building-- if you can-- a deeper, lasting relationship that's not about gifts or multiple orgasms.
2006-10-26 13:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if the flames are gone and there is just smoke left after only 6 months, then maybe you need to explore other options (singledom, dating other men). You guys have been together a short period of time considering that there are people who make it work for decades and if he is acting no longer interested or too comfortable, it's not going to get any better. It seems that he is taking the relationship and you for granted maybe because it's no longer a priority for him or maybe just because he kind of fell out of love. Either way, you deserve someone better. Someone, who, 10 years down the road still remembers the important days and ways to keep the spark burning. There are men out there like this! Take a break from him and go get yourself a man who appreciates YOU while you're still young enough to enjoy it!
2006-10-26 20:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by Gotham*City*Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a giver! What have you done for him lately?
Buy him gifts, want to see him no matter how long or what, make love to him multiple times, and compliment him.
You get what you give.
2006-10-26 21:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tamika G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's grown tired huh? He's taking you for granted,huh?
Gift giving, wanting to see you, making love multiple times, and complimenting you.... Very serious...
Maybe, just maybe, he thinks he's giving too much and not receiving enough.
So try this... When he comes over, give him a sensual massage... Maybe make him a romantic dinner... Then for desert... You'll just might have to put your twist on it.
If you are old enough, do what you please... Make it adventuresome...
2006-10-26 20:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend so much time together. Can't miss someone who is there ALL the time.
It's natural the twinkly feeling to fade after you've been with them for a while. If it never fades... true love baby...
2006-10-26 20:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a vacation or somthing .. to bring somthing new in your relationship
2006-10-26 20:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by s a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋