in these past 3 years he has cheated On me && lied.!! and i still love him but i dont think im in love in him. We used to fight all the time.. b/c i didn't trust him at alll && he used to accuse me of cheating on him when i would NEVER do that to him.... Im with another guy and he's with another girl {{after only 2 weeks, && just the other day he was asking me to be with him again then he finds this other girl..}} but knowing he's with someone else besides me is killing me.. I just wanna be like at least if you're going to move on atleast pick someone pretty! he picks the whores to move on to and then in the end i know he'll come back to me.
i like the guy im with but i just cant stand to see my ex with her. i know that we'll eventually work everything out and be back together but should i just forget bout the guy im with and go after my ex. or stay happy like i am!!
2006-10-26 13:17:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-26 13:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The first thing I would do is never take your ex back because once a cheater always a cheater. Second if you are with another guy and you don't like him then move on. If you do like him then stay with him and move on with your life. The reason why it bothers you so much that he is with someone else is because you think more of him then he does. He doesn't want to apply himself any better then a whore. He has taken the easy way out and that means he wants what he knows he can get, he has no self esteem, probably. If you keep taking him back he will keep cheating and you two will keep breaking up. Kinda like a circle repeating itself. You have to want more for yourself other then cheating and unhappiness. Stay happy, don't go back, find someone who makes you happy and stay that way. Good Luck
2006-10-26 13:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel and let me tell you something move on you are to young to be holding on to someone when you have all your life ahead of you. I am 27 yrs old and my boyfriend cheated on me plenty of times with whores too and I always came back and he would do the same thing over and over. I always said I came back because I loved him but as the years went by I realized that I was just used to him and trust me that ain't love. Sometimes you just have to let go and move on to better things.
2006-10-26 13:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by finestlatinaallaround 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you break up with him for good. then you DON'T go after your Ex.Find a different guy that cares about you.
2006-10-26 13:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't SOUND happy, hon. maybe you need a break from guys in general...even if you don't want one. good luck.
2006-10-26 13:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋