is it right that he waits for his baby's mom, gets phone calls and talks for awhile about nothing except i love you and other unimportant things, meets up with her for what ever and hasnt said anything about me? he's not allowed at her house they have kids but thats why he can't go to her house and he acts like there shouldnt be a problem but talks to me like he wants to be with me and makes future plans and im lost i dont know what to do im afraid to say anything cause i dont want to look jealous so please what should i do or even say?
2006-10-26 13:13:51 · 7 answers · asked by lovelysweetblonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are being played while he is trying to work his way back into this other woman's life. If he has a family with another woman, you will always find yourself in the backseat to that. You should decide if that's where you want to be...or if you can stop settling for second-best and find that guy that will put you first! Be confident!
2006-10-26 13:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already knew that he had children, Why did u get n a relationship with him? He will 9 times out of 10 always have feelings 4 his children's mother, because they have children 2gether. That's the Bond they share, and u can't change that! U ask him if he wants 2 b with his children's mother or u, if he doesn't answer, tell him that y'all have 2 b on chills 4 sometime because he doesn't know what he wants. That's the best advice I can give u.
Good Luck & God Bless.
2006-10-26 20:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tyegirl01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question here since he obviously wants to be with his new family. He's probably just lonely and wants you to be a temporary substitute. Don't be jealous, Be smart and leave this relationship. It's OK for him to wait for her on his own. You need to be a real girlfriend to someone else who wants the same thing you do, not just a temporary patch. And don't argue with him about it. You're not going to convince him. Why would you want to? I mean, here's a guy who actually WANTS to be with his kids and their mom. Don't get in the way of that. Be smart break up and get a real good guy who wants YOU!
2006-10-26 20:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by kim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still has feelings for her.. but he wants to be with you... Maybe you should just ask him.. i mean thats probably the best thing to do! i mean dont keep stuff from him yeah know!!
2006-10-26 20:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a clue. He's still banging her.
2006-10-26 20:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by the_gooey_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ... I think he still loves her ... but he knows he has to move on ..
2006-10-26 20:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by s a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complicated isn't it.
2006-10-26 20:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by starrdevine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋