i really want to ask my friend out but if i do i know that she will reject me and also will tell her mates in confidence who will tell the whole school and make me a laughing stock not that i care but i will prbaly end up in a fight which i am tryin to avoid these days also startin to think i may be in love with her.
2006-10-26 13:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and for those who think waiting is the key i've been waiting for 4 years
2006-10-26 13:13:34 · update #1
also i know she likes lads who look better than me maybe cause i've broken my nose 7 times but still look better than me also she never really gets to see my careing side just my cocky side
2006-10-26 13:19:28 · update #2
All your questions are related to this girl you like so much!
You call yourself "Irlandgirl". Is that why you have such a
great fear to ask her out.
If so, be careful. As you stated in your details under your
question - she will tell her other friends and you will be
the laughing stock in school. It will make your life absolute hell!
And from your description of her - she won't go out with you!
Wait and find someone else who is not in your school.
On the other hand - if I am mistaken about your situation - than
you just have to find the courage and ask her out.
No, you should not trick her in going out with you!!!!
2006-10-26 13:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her then give it a shot but if you don't you'll beat yourself up until you get over her because you'll always think about her and what if you had asked her out. If you ever see her with another guy you'd be very emotional and upset since you didn't ask her out If you get rejected then you can move on (the first couple of days would be hard if everyone at the school finds out but it will die down and you can move on).
2006-10-27 20:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her a lot, it's worth a risk I guess... when you do ask her out, DO IT IN PRIVATE... and also, make sure you act sincere because its less likely to spread gossip that way. She will respect you even if she rejects you... and I think you're over-thinking it... I don't think it would be as bad as what you think... you might even get closer...
2006-10-26 20:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by justagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not much you can do, except don't ask her out. It will get around the whole school, that is a fact. So do you love her more then stupid rumors, if so then ask her out.
2006-10-26 20:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to come with you and some friends to movie or something....if she is willing to go with you and the other fellows, she is probably will to go somewhere with you alone. If she says not, you were not inviting her on a date, just a movie with some friends.
good luck
2006-10-26 20:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u rele love her u can wait. eventually she'll figure out that ur amazing and rele like u. waiting is the key to things like that.
2006-10-26 20:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what other people think about bro.. and for the fighting part just dont..
2006-10-26 20:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Wade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-26 20:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u gotta be a man and ask her
2006-10-26 20:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by 50 yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she worth fighting for?
2006-10-26 20:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by pussycat_bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋