I almost get in a fight with my mom every day and my mom has said things like she hates me and wants me to kill myself and if i ask for anything she will bang my head against the ground until it bleeds!!!!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!?????
2006-10-26 12:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I feel your pain. I don't get along with my mother too well either, and I'm 25. We're better farther apart. I lived with her on and off when I was 18, and I did better away from her. She treated me like a baby still and wanted to be in full control of my life. But remember you only have one mother. And you guys need to cool off. But running away isn't going to solve anything either because if the cops find you you will either be in juvy and or back at home, and your mom will really be pissed. I don't know how old you are but you need to find another family member you can talk to. And I don't know the situation, because I can't give you full advise because I don't know what she does or what you do for the arguments to go on, but whatever it is that is wrong. But a mother has a hard job and if she's a single parent the stress is high to maintain a income and family life. But don't feed into it, go to school, or go to your room and just chill. Because when you feedback into what she says the fight is going to be on. This weekend see if you can call a relative and ask to stay over for the weekend so you guys can breathe. But don't run away honey. Because your mom will be the least of your problems if you do run away......
2006-10-26 12:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is being emotionally and physically abusive. How old are you? At 18 you can legally leave home. If you are under 18 I would called the child protective services for your state and report what has been happening in your home. I don't know what state you are in but just typing "child protective services" into google or yahoo will bring up a lot of choices and if you add your state into the search it will help you find the right person to talk to. You can also get help from a school counselor, principal, etc.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-27 00:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Answers4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see runaways alot when I am at work. DO NOT DO IT. Your on the net, check out how many kids NEVER come home, or are never found. It is a DANGEROUS place out here. I have sent a few home on my own, and mostly they are hungry, and ready to do whatever for food or a place to stay. Do you want to use your body for that? There are people out here that will take it and have no other thoughts about it. Find someone to talk to, and get it out of your system, but please don't do it. If needed, have someone talk to your mom too.
Good luck
2006-10-26 19:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move, just because she had you that doesn't make her a mom, do you understand what I'm saying, I know people that have kids, but that doesn't make them parents. So you should move with some of your relatives are even some friends because your mom sounds like a horrible person, where is your father.
2006-10-26 20:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an adult that you trust. A teacher, someone at church, the parent of a friend. Tell them what you are feeling, and ask them to help you get assistance.
Don't try to figure this out alone. It is not your responsibility. Go and seek help from someone you trust.
Good luck.
2006-10-26 19:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by pezdispenserwisdom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont if you run away they'll just bring you back or put you in juvenile do you have any family you could live with if so try to get out of there if not theres always foster care
2006-10-26 19:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
running away would not be the answer. you should talk to your mom(if possible) and if that doesnt work then leave(with her knowing) to go stay with family or a close family friend
2006-10-26 19:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by kyera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about your dad? Or do you have a grandparent you can talk to. Running away will not solve anything. It will only create more problems.
2006-10-26 19:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOow yea run away like not a long time maybe 1 day.
I bet she will worry and feel bad for u.
CALL THE COPS girl so they kick her out.
2006-10-26 19:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋