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2006-10-26 12:26:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That all depend's on you sweetie...it really does, some people never move on and it seems like your in love because you can still move on...Memories are a good thing, but keep in mind that they can be a bad thing as well, Memories kinda teach you a lesson sometimes so you can know in the future not to do that or to better protect yourself next time you know? I can't really explain it but you can move on when you have memories, it's not that, that's getting in your way, its the thought and your making yourself not move on. it's a choice and you need to choose to move on or not!
2006-10-26 12:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥MicHeLLe♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forget the good memories and why should you want to, after all they are good memories. Just think of it this way the person that you can not get over, if they were here now watching you how would they feel. If your sad they are sad, go out have fun with friends at first, then as you feel more comfortable going out again, start talking to people who interest you. Be open with yourself through the whole experance and you will get through it in time.
2006-10-26 19:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Doug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that it is very hard to forget all the good memories. I have been divorced for 4 years and I still remember them from time to time. Example: last night I was going through boxes because I just moved and ran across alot of pics. Saw the ones of my ex-husband and remebered the old times, brought a few tears to my eyes. But today I'm ok and those memories are now stored in the back of my mind. You just have to learn how to put them in the back of your mind and you will be ok.
2006-10-26 19:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the thing, Never forget the good memories.. Just keep them with you, when you move on to better things... memories are just there to make you happy when your sad and you could look back and think Yeah that was fun... Just try not to cling to much to the past. you have so much more to live and new memories to make. sometimes new memories replaces the old memories... and it makes it that much more easy to move on.
2006-10-26 19:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by maria U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to keep good memories with you, but not too many because they hold you back. Look at the present... What's happening now (good or bad). Give other people a chance, think about the future, know that in the future, so many great things are going to come. Just focus on that. Try not to think about those good memories too often...save them for when your older and looking back. Just try your very hardest to think about everything else!! I hope this helps you! Good luck!
2006-10-26 19:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by save trestles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good memories shouldn't keep you from moving on.. they should help you to move on. Get rid of the bad memories and embrace the things that make you smile!
2006-10-26 19:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by toolmom56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had a good answer for that one as i have tried to do the same and have had too. its been almost 2yrs. now and i still pine and cry for him but i know it can never be and if i can keep those thoughts in my head and how bad the relationship had ended it helps. I guess think of the negative things that occured in the relationship and not the positive and myabe that will help you to get through it. Good luck I'm with you all the way!
2006-10-26 19:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by cshell442003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I am trying to forget good memories right now of someone I cared about because I need to move on to better things. If you figure it out let me know please.
2006-10-26 20:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by Batman has left the building 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't. I can't forget my Memories with my ex......It's real hard but life's gota move on. My ex is dating my bff Ashley and it's really sad to see them so happy 2gether and then picture the time when it was him and ME who where happy. But....we've gotten to become friends and it was really sweet when he asked me if it was alrite with me if He and Ashley went out. I wud love to get him back 1 day and i hope i do.......but that day's gota wait in the future. U can't just forget them.......u just gotta realize the happy times and try to move on. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-26 19:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the good memories are just that, only good memories. just cherish it. it is what it is at that time. were there bad memories? focus more on thosebafd events and hopefully thing will get better for you.
2006-10-26 19:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋