im mad at myself im such a retard i have a huge fear of rejection and a huge fear of not bein accepted im just to afraid to go up and just start really hangin out with them because last time i tried i became the school loser so now im afraid to ask grls out and all stuff like tht help plz
2006-10-26 12:24:47 · 16 answers · asked by circaskater56 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You only live once... If you like a girl, play it cool around her. Just be yourself. Girls can tell a poser apart from a real guy any day, so don't even try that. And don't even be afraid of rejection... Your only human, it's gonna happen a lot in your life... so you might as well try. But play it cool. Girls like humorous, mellow guys with a personality that's fun to be with.I hope this helps and Good luck!!
2006-10-26 12:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by save trestles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a huge fear of rejection and acceptance, so don't think you are alone in that. Take it slow, watch how others act and react. You can decide if these are people you want to hang out with. If they are good people, the best way to make a friend is to be one. Be sure to set your boundaries and stick to them so you don't get taken advantage of. Once you make a couple of friends, I think asking a girl out will be a bit easier. You have to step out of the comfort zone now and then, take a risk. People that never take a risk never do anything.
Good luck.
2006-10-26 12:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen just be yourself. Do not pretend to be anyone else or someone you are not. Kids in high school mean nothing odds are high you shall never ever see all of them again. Kids who opinion of you swings by how you behave a lot are not meant to be your friends and the good friends you have their opinion i am sure will not change about you very quick. Also be confident about yourself do not let self doubt creep in but also dont be overconfident and cocky. Enjoy!
2006-10-26 12:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Arjun C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off chill out and just be yourself. Okay...Try not to think of what other people think. Your probably a really great guy anyways.
:D Well Good Luck!!!
2006-10-26 12:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Britters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
picture your self 20 years from now, if you dont ask out a girl by tomorrow, you'll still be living at home, knitting with your mom eating apple sauce watching the price is right.
now is that really what you want?
2006-10-26 12:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Pie Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u think u have problems i'm in love with my friend and y dn't u just ask a girl out even if she rejects u no one will remember by the end of the week
2006-10-26 12:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you need to just chill with girls like a sister or something get use to being around them ....Rejection, well you need to get let down a few times and it will make you better at the guy thing and you wont be so crushed to next time it happens
2006-10-26 12:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by SomeOne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe instead of being afraid and being more daring...You'll get more accomplished. Try not thinking of what everyone will think of you. I know its hard but sometimes you just gotta shrug it off.
2006-10-27 15:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by ...... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the guy above me.. be confident! you shouidnt be afraid of rejection. just move on..mmy best guy freind just got rejected and he was sad but the next day was fine
2006-10-26 12:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by The Lovely Ladies of Soccer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be mad....theres nothing you can do about it. But try hanging out with more people just as friends and you'll get more confidence to ask girls out.
2006-10-26 12:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly*Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋