ok this girl likes my bf nd she flirts with him constantly and she will not stop and my friends all notice and they tell me i should slap her and tell her off but im not the kinda person who likes to stir up drama. what should i do?
2006-10-26 11:57:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him to avoid her if he can. Is he reciprocating? If he is, get rid of him.
2006-10-26 11:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you have to ask your the question... is your boyfriends flirting back with her? If that is Not the case then, it shouldn't matter because your boyfriend loves you and he won't flirt back so there's nothing to worry about... But if this girl flirts with your boyfriend right in front of you then you should do something.....Don't worry nothing BAD just scare her off a little bit ......Well first hug you Boyfriend right in front of her talk to her without screaming or anything... Isn't my boyfriend THE BEST!...TOO bad HE Belongs to me and not you! and just start laughing.... Believe me she will think twice before doing anything again...
2006-10-26 12:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by maria U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to check her a s s! She is dirsprespecting you and everyone including you sees it. The longer you let it go, the worst it's gonna be. Not only that, if your man sees you just standing back letting that trick act skanky around him, then he might think it's no big deal. The last thing you want is for him to start responding to her when she is coming on to him. Just be like, "look, I don't appreciate you bouncing your t i t s in my man's face and riding his jock. Get your own man and stay away from mine." If she continues to disprespect you, PUNCH HER IN THE FACE : ) I bet then she'll get the point.
2006-10-26 12:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by alugo_19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull this girl into a secluded corner, tell her in a very calm and peaceful way that if she doesn't back off, that she will regret it for the rest of her life, then give her a big, maniacal grin. That should do the trick, make her think that your crazy.
2006-10-26 11:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in you situation and im not that kind of person either so i know how you feel. there isnt really too much you can do besides talk to her. but that depends on your relationship with her. but no matter what you do or say, it may not and probably wont change her feelings for him, but you can get her to back off. she isnt the real problem here, the real issue is how you bf is reacting.
2006-10-26 12:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by XMarskieX101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt slap her. Your boyfriend clearly does not mind one bit, so maybe you need to talk to him about it. But at the same time if you are so freaking jealous and insecure about yourself that some girl talking to your boyfriend makes you want to hit some girl, you have your own issues to deal with.
2006-10-26 11:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach your bf first... tell him that u better not find him flirting back with her. and then after u make that clear with him, approach her and tell her what you feel. Not that it hurts your feelings or makes you mad, tell her ur bf wants nothing to do with her and even he was single he wouldnt go out with her. he always makes fun of her and thinks shes heinous.
2006-10-26 12:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by xtropicaldreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell you BF that you're uncomfortable with that.
You should also trust him not to do anything.
If he's flirting back, then he's a jerk, dump him.
2006-10-26 12:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i have the same exact prob...this girl keeps flirting wit my bf too...and like he tells her that he has a gf and all and she has a bf..but ya...i really want to go up to her too...i just cant find it in.....but seriously if this does continue..you and i are going to have to......its starting to really bother me!!!
2006-10-26 12:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that it bothers you.Maybe he will put an end to it.Maybe you you should try to talk to the girl and tell her how you feel about her flirting.
2006-10-26 12:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by debralizjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank god you havent followed your friends opinions. just ignore her plus if your bf hasnt commented then he has no intrest in her
2006-10-26 12:03:41 · answer #11 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋