She met a man that she liked and they slept together the same day they met. She told me he was easy to talk to and when she met him for lunch they made a dinner date. As you see he had her for dinner!
Now this guy is giving her a hard time telling her that he doesnt think she has enough time for him in her life because she goes to school and works full time. She doesnt have any children but participates in a lot of extracirricular things with her nephews and god daughters. She eliminated some things for him (which i think was wrong) but he dumped her.
Now my friend is broken hearted as she thought he was the love of her life. She wants me to help her "fix this" but i say she should leave him alone. I want her to be happy but i dont think he is the guy for him.
I want to help her but i feel like this would be a bad thing for me to get in the middle of.
Share your thoughts and be honest
2006-10-26 11:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by msijg 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I gave everyone who responded a point but i need to sleep on the best answer as i am torn between 3.
thanks to you all for responding
2006-10-27 12:28:03 · update #1
I think that the best thing for you to do is be honest with her about the situation at hand and also comfort her in her time of need. I do think that guy is a A** and he just wanted a freak partner, but you friend is an Adult(I'm assuming) and sometimes you have to take the backseat approach and let her learn from her mistakes. Life is a learning process. Hope everything go's well
2006-10-26 11:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Vernee B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wager is the alcohol made her name. When I used to drink closely that is what alcohol made me do. I must say that I feel at the same time it took away any inhibitions it additionally tended to depress me and intent me to appear for comfort from peers of the fairer intercourse. I'm now not precisely definite why this occurs. You've heard men say "permit's get inebriated and make contact with up a few females" good that turns out to preserve real for females as good. I'm considering that her consuming obtained among you 2 ago and that it my had been the underlying rationale you broke up. She might become aware of this and believe that she made a mistake. Question is how does she believe approximately you while she's sober. That's what concerns.
2016-09-01 03:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The correct answer in a perfect world is that she should forget him and move on.
You can tell her what you want, but in relationships, no one does what you suggest.
The best you can offer her is your friendship and a sympathetic ear.
If she asks you what to do, then give her the right answer. Just do not expect her to act on it.
Relationships are as addictive as cigarettes. Smokers know they should not smoke, but they cannot help it; same with your girlfriend and this guy who dumped her.
Good luck.
2006-10-26 11:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the damage is already done you know.. he dumped her you really cant say too much after that...just tell her that you will be there if she needs to talk about it but i wouldnt offer anything to spark feelings of anger toward the guy... Just tell her things happen and maybe he wasnt ready for a relationship you know...tell her you love her and be there for her...no one likes to be rejected by someone they truly wanted a relationship with...you cant fix it even if you tried ...if you dont see that she understand tell her what you told us you know ....you want to be there for here but you dont want to get in the middle of it ...i hate breakups myself...poor baby ...hug her alot....let her vent ....be a good friend
2006-10-26 11:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is too easy giving. never pull your draws down on the first date. when you do so, that shows the man that you can do it to any other man . she do need need to go back with this guy.he dumped her now who say he wont do it again
2006-10-26 11:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you on this one honey
2006-10-26 11:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a glutton for punishment??
2006-10-26 11:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by bluebird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋