Well, I have a big question, I'm wondering if there is a girl out there who wont judge by looks.?

Question

I am overweight, and I am so sick and tired of being the only one without a Girlfriend. I'm wondering if there is a girl out there who won't judge by looks, but can judge by posititve personality.

Answer 1

My last bf was overweight too, but we started out in an email relationship so that when we eventually met, looks were irrelevant. We were together two years.

Answer 2

Ok Mikey-

It is a hard world. Believe me I know. I am a 21 year old gay guy that grew up in Mississippi. Some people will always judge someone, but the fact is that there is someone who will never judge you. And when you find that person you will know.
Here's a little advice: I don't know how much overweight you are but obviously you have self esteem issues that need to be dealt with. How about most importantly get yourself feeling good about you and then get someone else to feel good about you. Work-Out. I'm not saying join the military like my boyfriend is doing, but work out do situps, go to the gym, and find a girl or a gay guy with alot of style that can help you out. Why do i say a girl or gay guy because they will be honest and boost you into overdrive. Hope this helps you out.

Answer 3

There are girls out there. Ever notice the big guy with the skinny girl. I have see a lot of people I dont think are good looking with gorgous girls. If you a nice guy I am sure you will find one. I am sorta picky about looks but not to the point that weight means a thing to me. I put it this way. You have to be able to look at the person. I mean over weight sucks I am there too but I have had boyfriends. Just keep looking and never give up. Women love a man who is confident but not to confident. I am sure there is a great girl out there waiting for you.

Answer 4

I Think your Out Of Luck My Friend Most Women are Obsessed
With How You Look ,Unfortunately it's Written in the Genes.
Women Girls Tend to Look For A StereoTypical Man.
Just Walk Down Your Local Highstreet,Look At the Expression
If you even Smile at Them.
Visit A Massage Parlour At Least ItIs Honest........

Answer 5

Mikey, I'm sorry to hear that girls aren't giving you chances because your overweight if I knew you and found out that you were a nice guy and if I didn't have a boyfriend, also if I lived near you I would give you a chance. I have dated several overweight guys and to tell you the truth they're the nicest but alot of times girls are afraid of what other people will think but the way I see it is that you should get to know someone like online so that they can get to see what your personality is like and you don't show them a picture, that way if they want to date you it's for your personality and not your looks. Don't worry there are plenty of us compassionate none look judgers out there for you, just be patient. Also I am 5'4 112lbs, size 2 jeans in all sports and people aren't satisfied with my weight specialy not my gymnastics coach so I know how you feel. Remember Today does not have to be like yesterday. Email me if you have anymore questones, my email is mjmojo420692@yahoo

Answer 6

I think eveyone judges by looks on a first time basis, but eventually it won't be about how you look but about what kind of a person you are. If you are a nice, sweet, charming guy, any girl would be lucky to go out with you. The people who turn you down are the unlucky ones because they get to miss out a a great guy like you. You seem like a great person and I hope someone will come up to you soon.

Answer 7

I wished I didn't have to say there are a lot of shallow people in this world, but unfortunately it is the case. The good part about this is there are also very wonderful people in the world and I personally believe that there is someone for everyone out there. Maybe right now there is a girl who wouldn't mind being you girlfriend but she is too shy to ask you. My first love out weighed me by over 100 pounds and that man taught me how to love, so to answer your question, yes there are plenty of wonderful girls who will find you attractive and I know you will find one, but if you ever need to talk or a lift up go ahead and email me

Answer 8

Of course there are girls that don't judge by looks. Often if a bloke is too good looking that can count against him - girls feel that he might well bea player and not trustworthy - sorry guys but there it is!
I have always judged whether I really like someone or not by how much I can talk with him, what we have in common, whether he is a courteous person and most importantly by whether or not he has a good sense of humour.
I'm sure if you're patient you'll be successful.

Answer 9

Well I married someone who I wouldn't look at twice on the road, because I thought his personality was lovely. Yes, you can't judge a book by it's cover. Being careful is the answer. With my experience, I would wait and see and not be frightened by the fact you are still single. Your turn will come. There is someone perfect out there for you who has probably had the same experience as you. Be patient, goodluck!!!!!

Answer 10

In my opinion, its not a question of judging, its a question of attraction. You cannot help what attracts you to one person or another, just the same, as you cannot always choose which foods you like the taste of or not!!! Every body is different and everybody will be attracted to all manner of things in all kinds of different people. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...old fashioned, but true! Be confident, be kind and try to be positive. If you give off signals that your sad, needy and lonely, then your not going to attract very much!

Answer 11

lol,Every single guy i have been attracted to, I have been questioned for by my girlfriends. None of them could see what i saw. So don't worry so much about yourself. I know for a fact that girls more than guys, judge a potential mate by more than good looks! And i know for a fact that someone out there whom you will like will think you are totally hot! lol. The biggest turn offs that are common with us girls have nothing to do with looks. (drinking, cheating, being an *** smack-(mean), etc) Just stay a good guy. I know that they say that good guys finish last, but the mature girls are looking for them. And hopefully that's what you are looking for. lol. Otherwise be a jerk and get laid by pretty much any problematic girl. Good luck!