2006-10-26 11:25:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Practice with dark glasses on. Try looking at people when they can't see that you're looking. Work up to doing it without glasses on. Also take comfort in the fact that if someone isn't interested they will generally look away, but if they hold the eye contact they find something interesting or attractive about you. Good luck!
2006-10-26 11:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try imagining it in your mind as you would like it to happen. Psyche yourself up, and challenge your shyness, you have nothing to lose in looking at her. If you don't make eye contact you'll never know her reaction to your gaze. You don't have to hold eye contact, why not start off with a casual glance. We all look about us every day and it won't stand out unless you want to make it. Maybe if your shyness is a bit of a problem, get your hands on a book for overcoming social phobia which also tackles shyness. Good luck.
2006-10-26 11:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by inquisitiveme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be confident in yourself, all you have to do is make eye contact and smile one time and i bet she smiles back....most people (especially single) are also looking to be in a relationship and usually they will give anyone a chance. People are more open these days and will look at the good side of anybody so if you show her the positives about your personality you have a shot.....Good luck
2006-10-26 11:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by nick n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you only have to make contact for a few seconds anyway. Otherwise it looks like a creepy stare. Just work your way up from looking in her general direction to her eyes. Practice practice practice ;-)
2006-10-26 11:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by rag dollie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at the spot between her eyes instead.
2006-10-26 11:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and talk to her. What's the worst that could happen? If you embarrass yourself, you'll get over it, it happens to people all the time.
2006-10-26 11:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Docta Jones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look away keep looking!!!
2006-10-26 11:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by Fuck off 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a couple of stiff drinks for dutch courage...
2006-10-26 11:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh don't look away!
2006-10-26 11:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋