this bastard next door threw dogshit all over my kitchen window, i took my dog too the park and she did a poo their and another dog followed us and did a poo on his lawn, and he picked it up and threw it on my window. and so i went out and picked up the bag and threw it at his window, so i called him a coward as hes done lots of horrible things to me and i live alone with the kids and he came to hit me, i hate the bastard. what do you do with people like this and why are they so horrible.
2006-10-26 11:24:45 · 46 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep calm call the police and go to the council 1st thing in the morning, its harrasment.
2006-10-26 11:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all dont confront him. Thats the police's job. Document everything. Video is a undeniable source of evidence. Let the police do their jobs. A restraining order is the most effective way of dealing with harrasment but it will cost you a fee depending on where you live. But..if its such a problem the fee is tiny compared to the fact that if gets within a specified distance of you or your home regardless of why, you have him..legaly..for violating a restraining order. How ever this goes both ways you need to stay away from him as well. Document everything..inform police.....keep distance.
2006-10-26 11:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by horgurce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Burn down his house in the middle of the night when he's gone out for some fun.
Call the police/fire deparment yourself to get things under control.
He will have so much to worry about with his fire damaged house and stuff he will not bother you and when he askes what happened tell him that YOU called the police and saved his house and get the police to back you up.
He will never even imagine that you would go so far to get revenge and will be so grateful that his entire house was not burned down he'll straighten up and act right.
Just DO NOT GET CAUGHT!!!!!
Oh also you need to case the joint before planning a fire so that it is not obvious that it was arson... It's gotta be and accident.
2006-10-26 15:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You report them to the council and file a complaint with the police. Keep a log of all the things he's done so you can use it as evidence.
Somewhere along the way somebody might suggest mediation so the two of you can resolve the problems as they seem to stem from a silly misunderstanding.
Good luck. If you or your kids are ever in any danger do not hesitate to call the police.
2006-10-26 11:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Vic 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
camera, film the git.. tape him...keep a diary of everything he does... get other neighbours to back u up... take it to ur local council and police staion and inform them that if they don't do something ur going to a solictior and will also sue them, for letting the situation worsen... also go doctors and get loads of pills, sleeping, headache, stress all looks better when going to the coucil or police station for if u are then in need more-so of assistance... good luck
2006-10-26 11:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by thenickistar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the police are unable to help ask a priest to call on him to explain the problems - if nothing else that should embarrass him to amend his behavior.
2006-10-26 11:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by john b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tis bastard hit n u r still writting tis ???? go 2 d police station n make a report n get tis bastard do time .
2006-10-26 15:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if you are both on the same level, maybe you should have told him he had made a mistake, and that it was not your dog that did it. It is no good hurling abuse at him, that will only prolong the dispute and make it last longer.
2006-10-26 11:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
treat like 4 like..put dog **** under his door/car handle..and even better don't respond to him... laugh at him..., that will drive him mad..if he hits u/or your kids..keep cool call police..and nick the bastard..guess what you win..if he scares any of you call the police..show your kids you will not be bullied
2006-10-26 23:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this fella is a spineless coward, if he comes near you again, call the cops, get the idiot arrested, don't let him bully you, or better still, if you have any male members in your family, get them to come round and deal with him, lets see how he handles facing up to a man, he knows your on your own so that's why he's bullying you...sounds like a right tit to me, get him done if he comes near you again, he deserves to have that sh!t rubbed in his face as far as I'm concerned
2006-10-26 11:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋