I am so embarrassed to admit this, but I'm 25 and a virgin. I have had opportunites to have sex including one memorabe episode on an elevator. For whatever retarded reason, I am still "flowered". I now seriously want to have crazy, wild sex with my crush. How do I tell him? I don't know if I could take the rejection or him calling me a freak, yet I don't want to wait till he is "sliding in with difficulty" to let him find out. I need real suggestions here people. And I know already...what a loser?!?!
2006-10-26 11:20:48 · 17 answers · asked by pretty_n_sweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should not be embarrassed at all about being a virgin at 25. That is a big turn on when a woman waits that long. And trust me, he won't call you a freak when you let him know you're ready to do the deed. Actually, if you start to get intimate with him, he will be turned on like you would not believe. Not too many men get a chance to have sex with a virgin. The next time you two are alone at his place or your place and you're getting physical, ask if he wants to go to the bedroom and when you get there, let him know you're a virgin, but also show him you are ready. Knowing he will be your first will definitely turn him on. Good Luck.
2006-10-26 11:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a loser I wish I was a virgin hehe Seriously sex brings different kinds of complications but I get your point first of all dont show that "embarrased" attitude, second don´t push just let it happen and when it is about to happen you tell him in a nice way saying that you are ready to do it and that he shouldn´t feel any compromise with it afterwards, that´s all. But honey let me tell u something for sure an elevator is not exactly the right place for a first time.!
2006-10-26 18:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Necesitosaber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good thing now days!!! Not very many people are able to hold onto their innocence for that long. You should be commended for that. Well, if you're ready, then go for it!! If anything, your crush will be pleased to know that you're "untainted". I don't know why, but it seems to be a big deal about a guy being the first one to pop that cherry! Be warned, the first time is NOT what you think, so be prepared for that much at least. Now what are you waiting for?....get out there and lose that virginity!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 18:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you embarrassed about being a virgin? I think it is great.
With all of the temptation you have had, and yet you resisted. This makes you a strong as well as highly intelligent woman, not to mention very sexy if I should dare say so.
What is it you are wanting to tell him, that you have never had sex or that you want to have sex with him?
If it is that you are a virgin, tell him you have saved yourself for a man like him at a time like this.
If it is that you want to have sex with him, invite him to your place and answer the door naked when he gets there, he'll get the picture.
2006-10-26 18:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by bowtierodz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are silly for calling yourself a loser! What if you had sex in the elevator and not finished in time-or got a disease or got pregnant! You would be better off to wait and have sex with someone you love! What age you are does not matter!
2006-10-26 18:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're hot and still a virgin, you are not a loser.
On the other hand
If you are downright ugly and still a virgin at 33, (like Me), then you are total LOSER. Hence, I am a LOSER.
My advice: If it bothers you that you are still a virgin, then lose your virginity to a guy you really love. But make sure it's the right guy. good luck
2006-10-26 18:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by NJboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So I can be 5million years old and still be virgin and i would wait tell marriage and if you are embarrassed to tell your crush than your not ready you don't what him to go around saying your a whore or something like that and what if he is dating someone and you don't know about it you don't what to have an odd moment do you so wait because you don't know what he says behind your back do you and he problem don't know so don't go that way.
2006-10-26 18:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a loser and i can guarantee he will feel the same way i do. ..Heres a little secret.. most guys would rather hear you're a virgin or that you've only been with a couple of guys compared the double digits most girls your age have been with.
Just tell him.. he won't be mad, but he may be nervous and ask you if you're sure you feel you're ready to lose your virginity.
2006-10-26 18:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be embarrassed it nothing to be embarrassed about hell I'm 26 and only been with one man and he is my husband but I'm trying to say is if you want to sleep with somebody that is not your love or your man will you be able to take it when you see him with other girl the next nite and will your friendship still be the same your not a loser that is a real good thing to be so if you can wait till you found the right one and trust me it will be wroth it or maybe if you and your friend can hookup and work yourself into it maybe then but just wait
2006-10-26 18:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a loser, not at all! Why is this the guy you want to give it to? If you're sure he is, just take off your shirt. Every single time, that'll do it. It's the easiest seduction. Just look at him, slowly remove it, then let the straps of your bra start to slide off....he'll be all over you!
2006-10-26 18:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋