Okay, so I have a cat. We have been having some problems lately and she just told me it's over. She is packing my stuff up right now all the while muttering to herself that finally she is rid of that no good two timing (I was petting a neighbor's cat) pig. She claims she has bigger fish to fry so she is throwing me out can she do this without a restraining order? What are the divorce laws regarding man and cat??
2006-10-26 11:16:40 · 19 answers · asked by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 in Pets ➔ Cats
It depends on a lot of things.
What country do you live in? Here in Canada, it depends primarily on how long you've been living together, but who the leaseholder is is also taken into account.
Since you admit to petting another cat, you will not get a good deal in the court system in most nations. I suggest trying mediation.
Even if she is not legally able to throw you out, I suggest just finding a hotel for now, or the sofa of a catless friend. Spend a little time washing yourself down with bleach, make flowers out of string and dried salmon; give her a few days to simmer down, and see what happens. If it was just a one-time petting incident, she'll probably have reconsidered, and be happy to take you back.
If it's still a no-go -- I note you have been having problems for a while, but then, she didn't actually go and get a restraining order or anything similarly pre-meditated -- I'd make a feline to a lawyer's office.
Good luck.
edited to add:
Oh, okay. I just read your earlier question, viz:
"What is the matter with her??
Okay, so I have a cat. Lately she has been really wonky. She won't talk to me so I suggested she talk to a mental health professional she told me in no uncertain terms to f*** off. Should I wash her mouth out with soap??"
So, there's more to this than just cheating. I think you should consider yourself lucky that she even bothered to pack your stuff. 'F*** off' was _extremely_ courteous for a cat. Have you checked your oatmeal to make sure it hasn't been used as a substitute for kitty litter?
And:
"Is this hypocritical??
Okay, so I have a cat. She is a proud member of PETA and is a vegan and all of that wonderful tree hugging stuff that comes with the territory. Lately she has seemed like such a hypocrite to me, I mean she not only owns but WEARS a fur coat. How can I tell her what a hypocrite she looks like without getting my eyes scratched out?"
AND:
" She won't talk to me!!?
Okay so I have a cat, last night we were having our usual Thursday night drink at the local watering hole. I tied one too many on and got the idea that my cat and I needed tattoos. I thought it would be cute to get "Gimme Velveeta or gimme death" on her rump well it turns out she doesn't even like Velveeta, now she won't speak to me. What can I do??"
You ignored her for too long, dude. She's a vegan and you thought she'd like Velveeta? Hard to believe just from tasting it, yes, but it does have milk in it. Are you sure it's not you who needs the mental health professional? It may be that she's tired of the drinking -- if you're getting so soused that you entirely forget what she does and does not eat, it's you who's got the problem. Al-Anon may help for her, but it may be too late.
Your relationship looks to be cr*p, given stuff like this: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj9MyeWfbOX.txNLPw_QslPsy6IX?qid=20061011084536AAIWR3T
I've never understood why guys with beautiful girlfriends sometimes get all bent out of shape over it, instead of just being happy about it. Sounds like you have some self-esteem issues to work on (and I bet the boozing isn't helping there, either). You should've paid attention when you were told "Your relationship with her will improve when it is based in mutual respect."
Tsk! Men!
2006-10-26 13:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the laws in your state and or jurisdiction, while a restraining order may be used it should have been filed before she started packing your things. it allows the law to arrest you if you come in contact with her. when this comes to divorce court you should
ask that the property be divided equatable, but show the court
your willingness to award her with the scratching post, the litter box and toy mouse, that will show the court of your willingness
to act in a kind way and you may receive a more than generous
award from the judge.
or if you want to save this relationship, you and her should enter
man/cat counseling, it has saved a lot of relationships such as this. this is the one that i would try and do, because a scorned
cat is a beast to be reckoned with.
2006-10-26 11:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by barrbou214 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 03:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it all depeends on whos got the lease on the cat condo. She can do it if you've been at all abusive. I know a few good cattorneys if you need some refrences.
2006-10-26 11:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Emily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dood, pigs and cats don't last, what were you thinking?!
Just make sure you change the credit card and bank account numbers.
2006-10-26 11:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by korikill 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I heard that she was doing the dog and high on catnip most of the time. For that you can get half (of her share of the meow mix).
2006-10-26 11:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you rent or own if you pay at least half of either you both can stay.however it might be wise just go.if it goes to court you will lose also pay big time for lawyer so cut your loses and leave as soon as you get your stuff.
2006-10-26 11:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I'm not mistaken, the cat is always right.
2006-10-26 11:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude...just leave while you still have some dignity left. Quick.
2006-10-26 11:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by geode finder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHo is the house or apartment lease holder?
2006-10-26 11:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋