So my friend and I are going to this store "looking for a shirt for her brother for x-mas"This guy that works in there has been looking at me so intensly since may I started looking back and now its major intense eye contact.I don't know what to do it is really just too much to go in there all ready let alone just going up to him and giving him my number.I did that once years ago and the guy never called i was gutted and that was the first time I ever pursued...So what will make this any different...~I was not planning on asking him out to scared...he will think I am weird going in there after months wont he?
2006-10-26 11:04:48 · 16 answers · asked by Fuck off 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am so freaked that I will just glare at the ground gosh I am attracted to this man and hell I am scared as hell that it all sucks
2006-10-26 11:11:46 · update #1
Pssst. Stop your fretting. He's a man. He doesn't think like that. He'll actually be honored and feel good about himself. You're basically telling him "hey you're attractive". Most single men want a woman to walk up to them and hand them their phone number. =). Also don't worry about the other guy not calling you. That happened to me once. Sure enough I lost the number. I put it in my wallet and I never saw it again. That's probably what happened in your case as well. So, go talk to the guy. If you still feel the sparks. Hand him the paper. One more thing. If you want to practice giving somebody your phone number. I'll be glad to be of assistance. =) Good luck you!
2006-10-26 11:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Not really. Just go in and see if he has the same reaction. Maybe he will come to you. If you want to give him something give him your email address. But give him an email address you can make on Yahoo. It's a phantom address and this way you can talk to him and if he turns out to be a creep you just close that address. They tell you how to do this for credit card purchases. Don't give your phone number out. This way you are protected and if after a while it seems fine then you can take it from there.
2006-10-26 11:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your feelin him like that why not just start out by startin a conversation? ask his opinion on somethin your lookin at. he's obviously shy, so are u, so after u get his opinion ask him when he goes on break so he can give u his opinion on somethin u saw in another store. or better yet ask for HIS # and u call him. the first guy probably didn't call u because he couldn't handle being approached. don't stop being a go getter and going after what u want though. realize that a guy's inability to handle an aggressive chick is his issue to get over. not somethin u did wrong.
2006-10-26 11:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you really like him huh? The phone number thing isn't such a bad idea. I think most men are relieved when the woman makes the first move. If he isn't interested, he won't call but at least you can stop wondering. If he does then bingo!
That's easy for me to say though as I'm not the one who has to find the guts to hand him my phone number.......
Good luck x
2006-10-26 11:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because the first guy never called that does not mean the next one won't. Did the other guy have a girlfriend at that time? You have to take chances in life that is the only way that you can learn and mature.
2006-10-26 11:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by Bernie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well go back and see if it will happen again if so before you leave say hey do you ever have a off day i see you here all the time then go from there
2006-10-26 11:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...but I know that he who hesitates is lost and so you go for it. Why do you care if someone thinks you are weird, I bet a lot of people think you are weird already, its a fact of life.
2006-10-26 11:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
step up to the plate and take a swing. you may get a hit or you might strike out but at least you're playing.
2006-10-26 11:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you are in there and he is staring you down..... be coy....say "like what you see?" and check his response.....then you should know which way he is leaning.
If he likes you....go with it....if he gets rude and says something nasty....just be stuck up and say......all you can do is look at this.
2006-10-26 11:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should first just try to go up and start talking to him and making conversation get to know each other first that way you know if he is really interested in you
2006-10-26 11:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by TBird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋