Or would u do it under cover and not tell anyone about the relationship?
2006-10-26 10:33:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better keep it under wraps because if you worked for me I'd fire you.
Don't do it. It's just a complicated drama that is just a waste of time.
Edit: BH, thing is, when your at work, it's your PROFESSIONAL life, not private. That's what the company dictates. Be professional and stop thinking your still in High School.
2006-10-26 10:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your right, he may not want her to know he has a girlfriend. The change of attitude is also a bad sign. Maybe ask him if things are alright at the moment, and then voice your own concerns with his distant attitude. Remember to explain that these are your feelings and not accusations. There should be no reason for him to get impatient or angry at an honest concern about your relationship, but if he does and trys to make you feel bad or guilty for even bringing it up then he may be trying to avoid an answer. I hope things improve.
2016-05-21 23:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was against policy at my job too. Not written policy, just "you should know better" policy. My boss even told me not to do it.
I dated a guy from that job. 7 months after our first date, he asked me to marry him. 3 months later, we got married. And guess who attended the wedding with a big fat (genuine) smile? Our boss.
HOWEVER, keep it on the low down, don't flaunt it, and most importantly, you're at work to work. Make sure you do your job and don't give them any reason to let you go.
2006-10-26 10:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will never work what if you fall for each other you could both loss your jobs,how inportant is your job and would it be worth the risk there a lot of weman out there that you wouldn't have to think this through about
2006-10-26 10:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Heart-of-Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both interested in each other and it is not in work time
go ahead but if you work where decisions together would compromise any situation be carefull a little bit of the other in private should be ok but if you are proffessional people take care
2006-10-26 10:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by The tagg master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did and ended up married to my first husband with four beautiful, smart boys (well 2 are men now). Then ended up getting divorced...
We ultimately got busted and I had to transfer to another location. It was sure fun fooling around in the store room though!
2006-10-26 10:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe I'd care to work for a company that thought they could dictate whom I associate with in my private life.
2006-10-26 10:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
must follow rules they r put in place for a reason. if u must keep it on the down lo. if u hav problems outside of work then u both must wipe hands on tree before entering work to symbolize leaving problems outside of the work space. good luck
2006-10-26 10:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by big win 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason why you don't get your honey where you make your money. If things don't work out then things get pretty sticky at work having to be around each other.
2006-10-26 10:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it were a lame dime a dozen job that I didn't plan on staying and could easily replace if I lost my job over it - yes...but for a career job that I am supporting myself on and enjoying and have years vested into?..NEVER EVER EVER.
2006-10-26 10:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋