to all you wonderful guys out there: my boyfriend makes comments about marriage and kids. but when we first started dating he said he didnt want to get married for another 4 or 5 years and that he didn't want any kids. If he has changed his mind, i would be so excited. The other day he asked if i would be his baby until he made me his wife. i'm just curious if he's just messing with me or if he is serious but just using joking to see what my reaction is. to be honest i dont want to go all out and agree that i want to marry him and risk possibly scaring him off. plus, we have only been dating for 3 months. HELP!!!!
2006-10-26 10:16:55 · 12 answers · asked by doodlebug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes people fall in love quicker than you think! and believe me guys dont joke around about marrige or kids! if he sees that he has fallen in love with you, his attitude towards things like this will completely change! i didnt want to get married for a while, but when i met my girlfriend, that all changed! i am in love with her and i cant wait to finally get enough money to buy a ring and ask her to marry me! and even though guys wont admit it, when a girl he loves tells him she wants to give him babies, it makes them fall even deeper in love with them!
2006-10-26 10:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by zack s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys get in the mood of the moment and say stuff... it doesn't necessarily have any malicious intent, but it's just a product of how he feels at that particular moment. it can be cruel if it raises the hopes of the recipient... but girls, until you've got an engagement ring, stay grounded.
and three months isn't a long time... give the guy some breathing room and let him ask you when he asks you and without any pressure. it'll be better for the both of you.
2006-10-26 10:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do joke around but there is a time to get real to, it's called comuication if you don't have you must get it or your waisting yours and his time it just been three month so i wouldn't push it on him but you need to be able to tell him what you feel because as much as what he wants your wants are important to good luck
2006-10-26 10:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Heart-of-Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys joke around alot these days you shouldn't take it serious especially since its only been 3 months, youre gonna need alot of more time.
2006-10-26 10:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpinkness2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
90 days of dating = he's joking. He's messing with you.
Wait until you've dated 18 months before considering him to be serious.
2006-10-26 10:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course we do..
You know wabout the 3 rings of marriage.
Engagement Ring
Wedding Ring
Suffer-ring!
But seriously.. don't read into things alot! US guys say alot of stupid things, and are impulsive too.
2006-10-26 10:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Vic 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe he said that in the beginning to let you know he wasnt into you that much, but he just wanted sex. and now 3 months later, you've grown on him, and he might have feelings for you.
2006-10-26 10:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem is talking about marriage that soon...huge mistake, I mean just to think about the possibility is a huge mistake and I have no idea why in his right mind he even brought it up...
2006-10-26 10:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he might be thinking about it , curious questions would indicate that , however commitment is another story , I hope you find someone who is willing to commit to at least 30 years
2006-10-26 10:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't be serious and open/honest with him now, then whats the point in being with him? look for mr. right, now mr. right now!
2006-10-26 10:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by ineedhelp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋