Ok, I asked my ex to ask the girl I like if she liked me. My ex said that the girl said she just wanted to be friends. Is there a chance that my ex still likes me and doesn't want me to be with the girl, or could the girl like me but tell my ex to say she doesn't? It's just that all my friends think the girl likes me and that she flirts with me non-stop?
2006-10-26 10:15:52 · 18 answers · asked by guillemots21a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay well i think that the girl you like just told your ex that she doesn't like you because it was your ex that likes you and she prolly figures that you ex still likes you and she doesn't want to make her mad. If i were you i would just go ahead and ask her out, i mean the worst thing that could happen is that she would say no, but even if she does its not a big deal cause its only one girl
2006-10-26 10:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by lalagirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, why would you ask your ex to do this? Really think about it. You should've asked somebody else besides her. So, the way I see it you got 2 choices
1) Believe your 'ex' and then try another friend to test the waters
2) Go to her when she's all by herself & tell her how you feel.
Be DIRECT it'll be a better reward than the other way.
2006-10-26 17:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by jmintecu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl yourself if you want a clear answer and it'll take the guesswork out. In the future: never, EVER ask an ex to get involved in anything like that again.
2006-10-26 17:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by infernal_seamonkey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible that your ex doesnt want you to be with the other girl. I am in a similiar situation, except the guy whom i like, it is his ex who tells me he isn't interested. But he tells me different and thats all that matters. I would ask the girl you like yourself, and that should answer your question.
2006-10-26 17:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not take this offensive: when trying to find out if someone likes you it is best to tackle that yourself then to ask someone else. It is unwise to ask the ex who could be jealous and also unwise to ask your male best friend because he could also like the girl. Plus, it is sometimes better to know what the deal is then to sit there and hope for nothing. So go to the girl, invite her out, and then ask her if she would date you....the worst that can happen is that she says no---which I really doubt.....Good Luck
2006-10-26 17:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dumb can you be that you asked your ex? She may not even like you anymore but just be annoyed that you send her on an expedition to find out if another girl likes you. Do your own homework Romeo.
2006-10-26 17:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, there's a chance your ex isn't telling you the truth. Probably not a good choice of asker. Have someone else ask, or ask her yourself!
2006-10-26 17:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out. Dont listen to the ex she may be telling the truth but that soes not matter be a man ask her out and be done with it. You will never have to look back and wonder if...
2006-10-26 17:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by dreson k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world would you ask your ex that??? OF COURSE her opinion is biased and you dont need to trust her on that issue. the only way you will know if the other girl likes you is to ask her yourself
2006-10-26 17:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your ex out of it. There's a good possibility she's lying. Stop being a wimp and find out for yourself.
2006-10-26 17:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋