I have known this girl for 5 years, and we dated a few times, but i have been in a relationship for 4 years. She is always hinting that she wants to date me if I wasn't in the relationship. Now I am single again, and we went out a few times. We had a great time and Kissed. Now she is saying she is dating another guy. I ask if I should give her space, but she wants to still see me. What should I do. I think i need to tell her how i feel next time I see her, maybe she is uncertain ? We have always had a special connection to eathother....HELP !
2006-10-26 10:14:47 · 11 answers · asked by Richard J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF it is right, it will happen naturally. It sounds promising. She might be playing hard to get, she might be waiting for you to open up and tell her how you've felt for so long. If you were in a relationship for 4 years - she may be a smart girl & is giving you space for closure from your 4 year relationship, so you don't have any baggage moving into a serious relationship with her. Just chill for a bit... I bet she will come around when she thinks you are ready. In the meantime - read up on some cutsey romantic stuff to have in your arsenal for when it hits full blast. Hold on, pardner... this could be the ride of your life!
2006-10-26 10:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by CoronaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My point of view is that she is trying to get a back up with you. If she feels lonely is going to call you but at the moment she wants you near just in case. Sorry
2006-10-26 17:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years is a long time you shold have known her better,
You should just a 10 minute talk can make you togather.
if you are not satisfied just try other girl, not for 5 years.
2006-10-26 17:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by mohan_kirupasankar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is keeping you on her back burner so if she needs a date, a pick me up , or a rump in the hay ...she'll have you ... if you go out and find some one i bet she will be at your door set wanting you to be with her . or she could just be a tease
but go out and date for god sake you have been on lock down for a while no reason to go and put you self back in prison if you have parole... know what i am saying
2006-10-26 17:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by purple_eyed_dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man it sounds to me like neither one of you is ready for a long term commitmeant, I would just keep going out with other people and let time take care of it. If it's ment to be it will be.
2006-10-26 17:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by bootjack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's totally playing with you. I'm saying she's not worth a try, if a girl loves you she would hang around and stuff like that. Get over her.
2006-10-26 17:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her how you feel and if she feels the same way then ask her to be your gf and take things from there. Good luck with whatever you do.
2006-10-26 17:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by The girl who needs help??!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does like you, but it seems like she is having her cake and eating it too. Don't let her play mind games with you. Put your foot down and tell her how you feel about her.
2006-10-26 17:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't serious about you and isn't likely to magically be. It is a game. You need to move on and find someone who isn't playing a game.
2006-10-26 17:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation but i don't know what to do either
2006-10-26 17:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by malcom1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋