ok the other day when i was at my b/f house his ex called and told me for the last couple of days at school during scince that they have been holdin hands and that he was tellin her that he loved her and that she was goin to brake up with her b/f this wkd to get back together with him and i started bawlin and ran into the bathromm and locked the door and started cryin he told her that everything was over an that he loved me. he broke down the bathroom door sat down beside me and told me that everything was all right and that it was all a joke to get back at her for when they was goin out and she cheated on him.i really dont know what to do.plz help
2006-10-26 09:51:08 · 16 answers · asked by Sexy_hunter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant whatch him right now. he went to indiana for two days=(
2006-10-26 10:03:22 · update #1
he said that he did it. but it was a joke and that he loved me and only me . he told her that over the phone. monday is our 7 mnths i dont think that i could leave him. its the first time he has done this to me.
2006-10-26 10:09:50 · update #2
GOSH Girlfriend! The thing that I am going to say is do you trust him with all your soul? IF you trust him and know that he would never do this to you or to any other girl then you have nothing to worry about! BUT if he is known for cheating, well that is a whole different story. He ran after you and that says a lot for me and it should mean a lot to you too! AN ex can always mean trouble especially if she sees how happy and how much you love each other! Avoid her at all cost and ignore her most of all. IF he is cheating on you, you will find out, sorry to say.
Good Luck!
2006-10-26 10:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want a relationship filled with drama like this? If he does stuff like this, just think what will happen down the road. He sounds like a nut. I would give him and ultimatum. Knock off the drama, or we are through. Tell him you're serious. Girl, there are a lot of fish in the sea. This kinda crap isn't worth your time. Keep this in mind. If he is "lying" to his ex, what's to say he isn't just lying to you?
2006-10-26 09:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by cagewalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This joke is on you if you let him get away with it. Dump him, he is having fun jerking the two of you around. Please stay in school, study and make good grades, as you need help with your spelling. I think boyfriend trouble should be the least of your worries. Life is too short to get serious about any boy. Date and have fun, then you will not have to worry about things like this until you are older.
2006-10-26 09:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sexy,
You are absolutely right. You need Help!!! Get you life together girl. It is necessary to become one with yourself, before you can commit to another. It is known as balance. You are the center of your life, and as such, you must find peace with yourself. If someone somewhere does something that causes another someone to break down a door.....You have got serious problems, and need serious help!!!
Huggs and Kisses,,,,
Lonnie
2006-10-26 09:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by lonnie_m_d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him when he says he is done with that other girl.
Don't become all spellbound and confused whe he says he loves you.
Phrases like "I love you" and "You're the only one for me" is what causes drama like this.
If you really like and enjoy his company keep seeing him,
but don't feel as if you two are endlessly bound to eachother because he said "I love you"
as you can see he is not responsible with the power of those words.
Again if you enjoy his company, stick with him. If not, leave.
2006-10-26 10:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Johnathan S-C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it some time and think about it but keep an eye on him in the meantime. See what vibes you get from him in the next week or two. BUT if you think he's BS-ing you then he probably is.
2006-10-26 09:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a boy is playing games with one girl he will do it do all of them. I know I would not want to be with someone who wants to play games like that, it is mean and very immature.
2006-10-26 09:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by sherry k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you may not like my answer.. but dump him. He's obviously an immature jerk.
And who knows.. He may really be planning to get back with her and is just lying to you..
2006-10-26 09:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really this is tough but if u love this guy & u think he does also,ditch the girl but watch out cos it might also be true but i'lld advice u huld on to him cos she's mighty jealous
2006-10-26 09:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, either way he is lying either to you or to her, and breaking down the bathroom door is not the nicest thing to do either...
2006-10-26 09:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋