This is not out of my mouth but some dumb kook on here who goes by the profile name of "Diagofaldi" who gave me advice on my last few questions. Well, not only did his advice suck, he seems to be going for the wrong girls and he thinks he knows everything about what women want. He's probably nothing more than a spoiled / rich 25 year-old punk who still lives with his mommy in her $3,000,000 home in Del Mar. Anyway, girls, is what he said true? Do women really just want to be showered with attention, gifts, orgasms, money, and sushi? Or are you all better than that? Please be honest. I know that there are lots of good women out there. I just want to know what's most important to most women when dating a guy.
2006-10-26 09:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All I want is happiness and trust. The one thing that instantly ruins a relationship with me is being accused of cheating. I have never cheated in my life and never would. But some men are paranoid which is acceptable but some are over bearing. Money doesn't matter unless we are living out of a cardboard box on a New York alley stuffing our kids cloths with newspaper to keep them warm. Orgasms are nice and go mostly with out saying. Attention is nice sometimes but I don't need a puppy following me everywhere praising me over every little thing I am doing. That would cause me to punch him. Basically I think women want security, Love, Respect, The truth, marrage, and later children, in a warm home with some food in the fridge, and a loyal husband who comes home right after work and joins the family for dinner, after that plays with the kids and atleast one night a week have a mans night and let her have a womans night. The simple things are what life if worth living for!
2006-10-26 10:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I now you want an answer form a chick but.....coming from a guy who knows....
Part of it is true. Women want as many orgasms as we do if not more, to be given attention generally too- much/little can hurt you, Who doesn't like thoughtful spontaneous gifts (not all the time though)? As far as giving a girl money goes that is prostitution no matter how you look at it, unless you're married or expecting that money back, you are basically paying for something...? You mentioned being in Cali, so I warn you, be weary of girls you never see eat or who don't seem to like....food.
Not all girls can eat sushi and most good girls like either to cook for a man or a man who can cook. I'm done I hope this helps.
2006-10-26 10:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by strongwooddeadtree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you don't like being the center of attention and being embarrassed it's all part of the bridal shower. You will probably have to wear a paper plate vale too. Asking your friends and family to not give you lingerie or gag gifts won't stop them if they are anything like my family and friends. So just know that you will be a blushing bride to be on your shower day and thank them. Also having someone pick out lingerie for you is nice because then you don't have to go buy it which can be a lot more embarrassing then getting them amongst your closest female friends and family.
2016-05-21 22:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Betsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do others like there space personally I like attention but some men can just start to give you to much attention. I don't mind the money but that's not what alot of women are after. Alot want Just a strong man in a equal balanced relationship.
2006-10-26 09:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by Dreah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Showered with attention - yes. How else do we know a guy is into us? As for the material stuff, none of that is as important as being treated with respect and loved tenderly and wholeheartedly. If the guy wants to buy gifts, that is up to him if he finds that a good way of expressing his feelings but personally I believe it's the little things that make a big difference.
To know that someone values your presence and thoughts and opinions and goes out of their way to make sure you are happy is enough for me. Orgasms are always a bonus tho!
2006-10-26 10:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would take a very low and petty person to play the gold-digger game. I can't speak for all women, of course, but for me, character is far more important than what's in one's checkbook. A man of upstanding character and ethics can be hard to find, but is certainly worth the wait. If a man is rich, but is lacking character, morality and manners, then he means nothing to me.
2006-10-26 09:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all those things wouldn't be bad but then it can be tresome or boring. We, I mean "I" want excitement, Men tend to think that if you flaunt the greens we'll be crawlin. Maybe for some women, but not me. Orgasm... ??? okay, I agree with that. Any girl who doesn't is either a liar or a liar. attention??? to much can kill. But everyone's different.
2006-10-26 09:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you could find a woman that wants exactly that, but in my opinion....most all women want attention! Either from every guy they see, or just from their loving man.
2006-10-26 09:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence, good looks, being good in bed, trying hard to please, going out of his way to do things for me. Money is definitely not a big deal, though. If he tries he tries and that is all you can ask for. Love of the world.
2006-10-26 09:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't want to be showered with anything. If I do need something from a man, I'll ask. After that, keep your stuff.
2006-10-26 10:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋