Well 2 weeks ago i broke up with my boyfriend who i had been having a long distance relationshsip with for about 2 and a half month. I broke up with him because i just couldn't stand us being apart and not being able to see or be with everyday. Well anyways when i told him how i was feeling i told him that i thought we should be friends because i just wasn't feeling the same about the relationship but he told me that he couldn't be friends with the person he loved and that that was going to be the last time we would ever talk to each other. I was pretty bummed out because i thought we were going to be able to have a friendship after a certain time period but two nights ago i was about to go to bed and my phone rang and it was my ex boyfriend. I was so nervous that i just let it ring and didn't answer it not that i didn't wanna talk to him it's just that he told me he didn't want to be friends but yet here he was calling me. Why do u think he called me? Should i call him back?
2006-10-26 09:44:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he called because he was missing you and just wanted to see how you were getting along...and maybe see if you ahd changed your mind and wanted to get back together.
Call him back, and if you haven't changed your mind about the relationship, be clear and firm on this. If he doesn't want to be firends still, accept that. But also accept the fact that until he finds something or soemone to take his mind off you, you may get a few more late night phone calls.
2006-10-26 09:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well hopefully he called to say he was sorry and he gave his intitial response to you a re-think. Look - you had a long distance relationship for only 2.5 months...there is no way (though I'm sure you're a wonderful girl) that he fell in love - maybe with the idea of being in love - but doubtful (very) that it was love..people MUST spend time with each other to confirm that...that's a fact that many don't want to admit or face - but it's the truth. He should have accepted your MUCH more mature reasoning...(good for you by the way)...and be willing to be your friend. Maybe that is why he called and what he would have said to you. Hope so. Nahhh don't call him back - let him call you. Good luck to you.
2006-10-26 16:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times we as guys will say things out of anger. He probably was just saying he can't take just being friends, it's either us together or nothing. You probably caught him off gaurd when you said that the two of you should just be friends. It's like having a glass of water and a fourth of sand settled at the bottom. Everything's cool and content, and when you told him that, you shook his whole world. And that made the sand in the glass stirred up and cloudy, and out of thinking un clearly and out of anger he said "we won't talk again." But over the few days spent not talking over the phone, the sand had settled again and he came to his senses and new he was making a big mistake for saying that. And he just had to talk to you and take things slow to find out if there is really anything there. Because he definitely cares alot about you. And if it's meant, then it'll be... Catch a Butterfly and let it go, if should come back to you then you'll surely know.......... Blessings~
2006-10-26 17:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Michael C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having just told my gf things weren't working for me and then realizing how much I would miss her if she wasn't around, I got together with her and told her missing her was just too great a price to pay. I'd say he very well could be thinking the same thing. Don't you want to know?
2006-10-26 17:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to call him back!!! how can you live without knowing I can barely stand it!!!!! if it wasn't something positive why would he call at all? he doesn't sound like the kind of guy that would call just to say how much he DIDNT want to talk to you...
2006-10-26 16:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by sweetybabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that human behavior cannot be predicted. If you wnat to know what he as to tell you you will have to listen running away will keep you thinking about it a long long long time
good luck
2006-10-26 16:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes girl! guys say stupid things at the heat of the moment, and then take it back when they have had some thought, call back girl!
2006-10-26 16:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dezzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probaly needed to time think about what you told him. Call him back.
2006-10-26 16:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him back, maybe he changed his mind.Take care
2006-10-26 16:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by Devon M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah dont call him back....move on.. its not gonna change things if you do talk to him...now if he moves down there.. then thats a whole-nother question...
2006-10-26 16:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by c t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋