I'm afraid to tell my b/f that I love him. He hasn't told me but he keeps saying that when the time comes, he'll tell me... for now, we usually just say 'I heart you'.. we're in our mid-20's, and i feel that i heart you is not enough. Do you think he just doesn't feel the same for me? but all of what he says and writes to me feels real.. he expresses how much he loves me without saying or writing 'i love you'... help me.. any advice?
2006-10-26 09:39:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can say i love u...but im terrified of commitment....cant bring myself to take that "next" step......guess thats why she dumped me? so say it now......if u love him tell him! those words could unlock his heart & let you in to his soul......where you want to be......get the picture?remember......were guys...we dont think very well!
2006-10-26 09:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still scared to say I love you to my botfriend though we have been dating for a month ans a half even though I have said it before I don't know well it's not scared the first time you say it will not hit you that he said it until two minutes later lol thats what happened to me anyways Don't be scared my boyfriend told me that he loved me first I don't think I would have said it first because I have been hurt well I got hurt both ways so I don't know but if you feel different about him just tell him
2006-10-26 09:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough time, I remember the uncomfortable feelings also. I finally just told her I love her because I did! She did not tell me the same for two or three days and that was the longest 2 days of my life! We are scared and it makes us vulnerable to say those words "I Love You". So if you feel that way tell him, and let him know it is okay if he does not say it until he is ready.
Good luck and you know the old saying "It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved"
2006-10-26 09:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize that it's nice to hear "I love you" but if he is showing how he feels through his actions then be happy for that. Whenever you try to force things in a relationship they generally end badly. Let things flow naturally and he will tell you in his own time.
2006-10-26 09:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of people are afraid to say I love you. It is just a word and at times a person can show love for you and still be afraid to say the words out loud. Maby your guy is afraid of rejection,and needs to feel more secure in your relationship. Good Luck.
2006-10-26 09:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by zzum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel it
JUST SAY IT
you will never regret....
as soon as u say it u will really discover if he really loves you or not....
but if you really feel it....dont hide it...say it...and dont feel weak...he will feel weak in front of u if he doesnt love u...and if he lies and doesnt love u ... u will feel it too....
dont wait for him to say it first....
if u really love him ... make him happy with telling him that u love him....and if he really loves u...he will tell u too and make u so happy too...
thats it...
2006-10-26 18:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by sex_kingdom_king 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to most people you are not the only one. just practice saying i love you. and when the time comes you will say it.
2006-10-26 10:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by EL GANGSTA. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my moto in life is if you have something to say sait you dont want to live all your life regretting that you didnt say i love you to your man do you? i wouldnt
2006-10-26 09:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is so cute,
you dont love him,, you will know and say it when it when you love someone
2006-10-26 09:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks the right time is marrige. but i heart you? thats...odd.. tell him you love him and see what he does
2006-10-26 09:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by Marcus. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋