if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
2006-10-26 09:24:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you messing with her? There's more to the story than what you've stated. This chick is torn up in the head. She's actually stalking the ex. That is, if what you say is true. She wants her cake and to eat it too! Break it off!!! You'll either be her next victim or she'll go back to the ex. Either way you lose. Concentrate on education for now. Make good friends and find yourself. Give yourself time to think before you leap again.
2006-10-26 09:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't ready for a decent relationship with you or else she would let it go with the other guy. She's obviously hoping to get some sort of response out of him for who knows what reason, but I'd be cautious-- seems kind of shady to me.
2006-10-26 16:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still cares for him, and wants to make sure he is doing OK, since their breakup. She obviously doesn't want him to be in any pain, because she obviously isn't. She's probably feeling guilty about not feel bad about the breakup.
2006-10-26 16:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you already tried using Pull Your Ex Back mechanism? Proceed to this site : http://www.ExRecoveryFormula.com/ . This will absolutely save yourself!
2014-08-20 03:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her
2006-10-26 16:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is going through the getting over him process ..Go Down more she will 4get him soon enough.
2006-10-26 16:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to make sure he is miserable
2006-10-26 16:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋