I really like this guy who said i'm too self-centred. I know he likes me too and i just want to know how i'ld solve it coz i don't want to lose him. Help!!!
2006-10-26 09:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by genipabu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest--are you? Alot of people seem to think of everything in terms of whay it will get them or how it effects them, even if it has nothing to do with them. Maybe he sees you this way, and if you are, that's a good thing to work on changing, regardless of this guy. It's a great thing to consider and care about the needs and wants of others, and to do things just because it will make them happy.
2006-10-26 09:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him?
You don't HAVE him yet.
Find out why he feels this way. I've seen people with low self esteem think that others around them were too self centered when they didn't even have a center.
You say you know he likes you. Does he? If he's attracted to you physically that doesn't neccessarily mean he will date you. I know girls who i think are attractive and i'd never date them even if i was single because i don't like what they do or how they act.
2006-10-26 09:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you have to do is first evaluate yourself, see if you are self centered and why. then make it a point to not be so self centered because that is a huge turn off for men and women. it instantly tells the person that you will only do things if you benefit from them and no one wants to be with someone like that. that's like see sawing by yourself.
2006-10-26 09:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last time I checked, calling someone Self-Centered is a complete insult! Forget that guy! You'd be doing yourself a favor to lose him!
2006-10-26 09:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 10:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that your not self centered. Help others before you help yourself. Prove to him that he deserves you. Or just drop him and move on to some other guy.
2006-10-26 09:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by smexibiotch3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good look at your self and see if you think you are selfish. If he is really worth it than i would try to change, but if you dont think you are then he isnt worth it.
But if you really like him just try to put him first and do sweet things for him to show him you really care.
2006-10-26 09:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that you do care about other people by volunteering, and helping your friends and when your with him don't talk about your self the whole intire time. Ask him how he's doing
2006-10-26 09:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of "saying" that you are self-centered. Do actions that will prove it. He'll come around if he really likes you.
2006-10-26 09:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him see you do something nice to him. Then make a little joke about it. If he laughs, you're good.
2006-10-26 09:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋