I have this friend that i like more that just a friend. Should i tell her and risk our friendship or just stay silent.
2006-10-26 09:18:08 · 34 answers · asked by TJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her, your friendship could evolve.
2006-10-26 09:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes down to is love worth the risk? If you really think she could be the one then the risk of her saying now shouldn't out way the possibility of her saying yes.
2006-10-26 09:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Leah * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Risk away! I'm with one of my best friends of the last 3 years and I couldn't be happier! We knew we'd be taking a risk but we're madly in love now and I think this was our destiny!
2006-10-26 09:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Life is about taking risks. Don't you know the saying that "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all"? If she is your true friend, you are bound to gain no matter what happens.
2006-10-26 09:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by J C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her, it easier that way. Go to a Pizza Hut and have a meal, then on the way back home just tell her. Its that simple.
And anyway, 9 times out of 10 the girl already knows anyway lol
2006-10-26 09:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell her.. I didn't tell the girl I liked and I've wasted more than a decade thinking about all the "What Ifs". If you already know her well, I think you should go ahead. But if you've just met her, then take the time to get to know her first before telling her. All the best brother!
2006-10-26 09:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true friend, your asking and her rejecting would not destroy it, just make it rough running. If you have to ask us, you need to work on your friendship before you work on that dating, cause the best girls I ever dated were great friends also.
2006-10-26 09:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by trooperthorntton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. If you don't, you may regret it later. She may like you back too. Tell her the truth. She probably already knows that you like her, but she just doesn't want to say anything. Just make sure you say that you still want to be friends. If you both decide to date, make sure that you say that you still want to be friends in case it doesn't work out.
2006-10-26 09:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not start out by taking her out, and see if the two of you are compatible. and then ask her, how she feels about you? This answer will tell you, if she wants to be your friend.
2006-10-26 09:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a risk! It could just pay off, otherwise you'll wonder forever what could've been!
2006-10-26 09:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by lazy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋