i called it off five mos. ago when i heard a girl on his vm saying hey, maybe i'll c u later. later that evening he changed the passcode. also, it was he who started sharing passcodes. i never asked for it...so when he changed it...i was like oh no, itz over. anyway...after hearing the vm i called up an ex and slept with him. anyway....we've been back in forth, hanging out together, and all that. he's 21, i'm 26. age was a factor for me initially but i gave him a chance. we met @ 20 and 25. he's mature for his age, so when we met at first i didn't have any idea of the age. i usually date guys a few years older than myself...but this one was special. i told him if he wasn't ready let me know. we were together 9 mos. so the other night i called him up after heading home from the club w/my girls. we hung out sat & some of sun. next few days i texted him ...should we try again? he said can i think about it? i said datz cool. should i let it go. or give him time?
2006-10-26 09:17:13 · 8 answers · asked by just me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I think you should just let it go. He would have answered you right away if he really wanted to get back together.
2006-10-26 09:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Hello Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go he's got other girls on the side just as much as you have other guys. Ya'll seem to be just fu** buddies and that's it. So move on and find an older man.
2006-10-26 09:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by bktp37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol ur too nice... can we hook up too.... omg this dude is soo playing you... and your asking if u should give him a chance... so it was his idea to share passcodes... hmmm thats a lil sign that he was cheating on you cus he wanted to know who was calling you and checking if it was any guys... but anyway.. right now your ms convinient for him.. when ever he calls you.. you probly stop what your doing for him.. lol let him go...just let him go...tell him that if he wants to hook up w/you to call you in 5 years..
2006-10-26 09:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe let it go. the 2nd time around is worse than the first. wats dat say'n : Fool me once shame on u, but fool my twice SHAME ON ME.
2006-10-26 09:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Carameltye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of trust issues to be worked through, but if you can get past them then you should atleast try.
2006-10-26 09:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hang out with him if he aint gonna get back together with you
2006-10-26 09:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by KillaX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't seem to be into giving it another shot, then let it go...
2006-10-26 09:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-26 09:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋