that the relationship wasn't working out for me. About a week later, I realized I had as much to do with it as she did (which should be no surprise, they are a two-way street) and that I was missing her terribly. I really do love her and am willing to do what it takes to make it work assuming it indeed can (I am confident b/c we had it going real well for several months). I basically got greedy, wanted more of her time and started pushing her away, but things seem too be calming down again. If I just tell her I'm sorry I over-reacted, can you forgive and forget? Anyone think it'll work or have any better ideas?
2006-10-26 09:13:20 · 14 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so you over reacted.... nothing is better than saying a heart felt sorry to her. she might resist in the beggining but if your love is true, she would forgive you. don't repeat such a mistake in future as girls are hard to forget such things.
2006-10-26 09:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by nilu v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has only been a week since you told her that the relationship wasn't working for you, I bet she's missing you also. What you should tell her is exactly what you wrote here that you over-reacted and got a little scared and most important that you miss her and love her. Now she might have done something dumb, like go out with her girlfriends and try to meet someone else because you hurt her, so that is something you will need to forgive, keep in mind if she did something like that, that you set that ball in motion. Now go get her back! Do something romantic, women love that, and I'm sure all will be forgiven. Good luck!
2006-10-26 16:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jolene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and apologize. Tell her how you feel. Always remember that she is going to need her space as well as you.Ask her to forgive you and again tell her/show her you are genuine when you say that you love her.Tell her that you now realize she needs her time for herself too. I made the same mistake as you when I was younger and lost a girl I loved so very much.We were together for 8 years. Don't let that happen....You'll regret it..
2006-10-26 16:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by driver1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a very high chance that she'll say no, but to have a guy thats sensitive enough to realize that it may have been partially his fault and wants her back, that she may say yes to. It depends on what kind of girl she is, but just posting this is the sweetest thing i've ever read so I say go for it!
2006-10-26 16:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by getshorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this has happened alot then she just got tired of it all she wanted a more happier and secure life. you have to really work on your insecurities it looks like. maybe it's best for you to find yourself first and where your going in life, so the next girlfriend you have will not end up like this one , or see if she wants to work it out first, talk to her respecfully give her room to breath and tell her to call you when she is ready to talk if she doesn't then you know what to do , work on yourself and figure out what you need to do to keep a relationship going. you don't want to loose the next good woman in your life.
2006-10-26 16:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by hugabug72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be a great idea to tell her everything that you just wrote. tell her that you understand that you had a part in it too and that you are sorry.
dont just sit here thinking and writing about it. go tell her. dont be selfish anymore. the both of you have to put in 110% and realized that you are not the only one in the relationship. a lot of men fail to realize that.
2006-10-26 16:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up, tell her you want to see her and have a conversation. go somewhere nice and secluded, where there will be no one else but you two, and tell her how you feel. if the relationship was good like you said, she will take you back. you just have to make sure to keep those harsh feelings in check.
2006-10-26 16:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it explain to her that you didnt realise how much you were at fault and let her know much you really care about her and how youve felt when you werent with her. If it is meant to be it will. Best of luck!
2006-10-26 16:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know if you don't ask her. If it is real love, then it will work out. If not, then it is a learning experience. Good luck.
2006-10-26 16:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you miss her so much, call her and explain what happened.
2006-10-26 16:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋