if i am i dont want to kill my baby?

Question

i know im repeating but i left some details out about me and my boyfriend and how he told me if i love him ill do it and i di i regret it but if i am pregnant i dont want to kill it.... what do you guys think im 15 hes 16 and it was dry sex but he was close when he _______

Answer 1

The odds of you being actually pregnant are really really REALLY slim. But not quite 0.

Anyways, if you are... don't kill it just cuz he says so. He's clearly an idiot anyways.

Answer 2

first off, go to a free clinic and get yourself checked out, second, dry sex- not to say that it never happens- will rarely cause someone to get pregnant, but there is a risk still. that is something that you two have to decide. personally, i think no one has a right to say whether it is right or wrong if they are not put in a situation where they have to decide. But it is your body most importantly, you need to do what you feel best because it is going to affect your health even if you don't keep the baby and get an abortion. And if you decide to keep the baby, be prepared because it seems like your man does not want to be a part of it so it may be all your responsibility. there are also options such as adoption and guardianship until you feel capable of taking care of the baby.

Hopefully you will learn your lesson and not have sex until you are an adult. there is no reason to rush into it. It is a grown up decision that you two obviously are not mature enough to handle.

Answer 3

Obviously if you are pregnant it wasn't "dry" sex. I think you'd better start talking to your parents because you're obviously not mature enough to have a child and your parents are responsible for you, as well as your medical care. Just as obvious is the fact that you are much too young to even be dating let alone having sex, if you're going to fall for the oldest line that there is. You have some major growing up to do and sadly that is going to have to happen in a very short time. Having a baby at your age takes a toll on you (and your parents) financially and you emotionally as well as physically, girls who give birth before their bodies are prepared for carrying a pregnancy and child birth have for greater complications in their pregnancies and births as well as this possibly affecting any future pregnancies you may actually WANT to have. Not much anyone can do for you at this point, it's all up to you.

Answer 4

Read my answer to your previous question about this.

If you are pregnant then you might want to talk about it with a school counsellor or someone at an organization that deals with this to help you make informed choices.

Answer 5

why do you make sex with someone if you don't to have a baby
i think that you must be engaged in then make sex , by that way you will have a right relation and you will have a baby in sametime
cheario
mohd

Answer 6

Let me say this much!!! ANYTIME ANYBODY SAYS THAT IF YOU DO SOMETHING YOU DON'T LOVE THEM! THEN IT IS NOT LOVE! I am so sorry to tell you, but that is a line that guys use to get what they want. They tell you they love you after you say it to them because they know that they've got you now and want to keep it that way until they are done, then they use your love for them to get you to do things that you aren't ready for. My dear, please re-evaluate your relationship.

Answer 7

This is why babies shouldnt do things that can make babies. Your young and dumb and naive and you dont know sh*t about yourselves and yet you out there playing games and doing ADULT things. Do your homework, play hopscotch, do your chores and go sit on your asssss.

Answer 8

Quit freaking out your not pregnant. Relax.

Answer 9

you both are too young to accept such a huge responsibility... you should get education first and then think about family and kids... if you're pregnant you should tell him and decide what to do... if i were you, i wouldn't have it...

Answer 10

its not the babys fault yeah ur young but cmon take resposibility for ur actions. u need to tell ur parents and his