my bf and i are going to have sex in the near future for the first time...he wants to make it really really special and surprise me. do you have any advice on how i can make it special for him too?
2006-10-26 09:07:25 · 7 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait till marriage.
2006-10-26 09:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy. Sex at all is pretty special for him. Make sure that you can trust him 100% before you do anything, though.
Love and trust are very different, and of the two, trust is waaaay more important for this kind of thing though i really hope you have both. And at least wait until the two of you can talk about all the possible outcomes of sex and how you would deal with them, namely possible pregnancy, etc.
2006-10-26 16:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by kiddo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, make sure that the BOTH of you are financially as well as emotionally ready for sex, that the BOTH of you are responsible enough to be able to handle ALL of the consequences that come with having sex. Because if neither one of you are or only one of you are then you are NOT ready to have sex
2006-10-26 16:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't know because I'm inexperience but my friends tell me to just relax, look beautiful, and have fun. Don't rush and enjoy the experience, but if you feel like you are having second thoughts just wait until you are ready. Good Luck.
2006-10-26 16:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you bite off his willy he will never forget you. Oh, you want special in a good way? Well, guys like dirty talk while doing it, they like to feel like you are into it. Don't be shy, make him feel you are not inhibited or shameful about getting it on !!
2006-10-26 16:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by Richard J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it in the butt for him.
2006-10-26 16:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i second that (wait)
2006-10-26 16:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by taiwanese 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋