There is a girl who i have come to like at college, i have only spoken to her a little bit, and i only get to see her once a week, but i suddenly think i have feelings for her and i dont know what to do, i know i really like her but dont know what to do.
I need help
2006-10-26 08:46:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for your comments, i know she arrives early, so should i do, and see if i can speak to her alone?
2006-10-27 08:40:53 · update #1
Try talking some more to this girl and if you think she likes you and is single and not a lesbian then ask her to go for a drink or something..if u r not ready for that then you could always try and arrange for a group of u to go out together..make sure u sit next to her.
2006-10-26 08:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe sit at her table one lunch time at college when u see her and ask her how she is and just casually drop into the conversation that u should both go 4 a drink sometime maybe if theres a party you no of happenin in the same week invite her a long she could bring a couple of freinds even and then atleast you could build up a bit of dutch beforehand to tell her that you really like her once she settled into the party hope i helped lol x good look x
2006-10-26 10:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out as part of a group thing, for example: a few of us are going to the pub/zoo/toys-r-us, would you like to come along? Then make the group smaller and smaller till either you've got to know her well enough or you've got the bottle to stick your neck out. I've used "I need to get my little Sis a Birthday present from Hamley's would you help me out and come along for a female perspective, you'd be doing me a huge favour cause I'm crap at buying for women." That way you can go out without any pressure, you don't lose face if she says no and you can buy her a cuddly toy as a thank you (and she'll remember you when she sees the toy)
2006-10-26 08:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by clusp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is on the same course as you, why don't you try asking her if she wants to work on an assignment with you,so you can get to know her a bit? Or find out where she goes with her friends, and go along with your friends so you can get chatting. Or, you could take the bull by the horns and ask her if she would like to go out for a drink/coffee/meal/watch a film with you ... if you don't try you'll never know!
2006-10-26 08:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to know her in a social situation and then take it from there. Find out what she does in her spare time and see if you can "accidently" be there too ;). Dont stalk the girl though, thats a real passion killer! lol Good luck
2006-10-26 08:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her from time to time,ask questions about her,and bite the bullet-ask her out,maybe just for a drink to start. Good luck!
2006-10-26 08:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont feel you can ask her to her face , then try and find out her mobile number and txt her. I'm sure she would love to know she has an admirer. best of luck
2006-10-26 08:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her its quite alright for her to take you to the pub and then on to a restaurant and if she plays her cards right she can have a night of passion (if the footballs finished)
2006-10-26 09:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be casual and say you're going for drink and would she like to join you - that way theres no pressure and you will know if you're on the right track
2006-10-26 08:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by voluptuous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and meet with her
and talk to her and
listen to her trust me I'm a gal
i know these things
and be polite
2006-10-27 04:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Thandeka M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋